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Postby Candid » Sat Jun 13, 2020 7:01 am

Post 90: some good ideas from me about Istanbul
Post 250: some good ideas from you about Istanbul

and then you were thinking you might be sent somewhere else, and that wasn't fair, and you really wanted to be near your mother, but you were scared of your father.

and then the Universe listened to your desires, and your father died, and you got moved to Istanbul while still keeping your job, and that was supposed to fix everything for you

BUT what you really wanted and still want is a girlfriend. So there you are in Istanbul, with your father off the scene, with the choice to live with your mother if you want to, with the job that keeps you independent

and I'm wondering what you've done about finding a girlfriend. It's time you started looking, because when you find one who's age-appropriate she'll be starting to think her eggs might run out soon and it's time she had a baby or two.

Deserate, the woman you're looking for is in Istanbul, and it isn't your mother. She's right there, waiting for you, looking for you, hoping for you. So it's time you went looking for her.
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#451

Postby desperate788 » Sat Jun 13, 2020 7:33 am

I don't have sexual desire what will I do with a woman?
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#452

Postby Candid » Sat Jun 13, 2020 9:16 am

Talk to her. Listen to her. Give her a cuddle. Maybe a kiss. Play your favourite music to her, and ask her what kind of music she likes.

IOW, treat her like a human being. She'll do the rest.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jun 13, 2020 10:29 am

Will she want me? I'm shy
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#454

Postby desperate788 » Fri Jun 19, 2020 12:36 pm

Any problem with the post they posted yesterday
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#455

Postby Candid » Sat Jun 20, 2020 6:43 am

desperate788 wrote:Will she want me? I'm shy


Don't even think about that. Just practise being friendly, talking about work to start with, then trying to figure out what other interests she has. You're not asking her to marry you, you're just getting to know her.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jun 20, 2020 12:09 pm

Yes that sounds easier
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Postby Candid » Sun Jun 21, 2020 10:41 am

So get on with it. She'll soon let you know if she likes you.

It never hurts to make a friend.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Jun 21, 2020 10:43 am

I will try to talk whenever I see her that's all I can do actually doesn't care much
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Postby Candid » Sun Jun 21, 2020 11:53 am

You're not very keen, are you?
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Jun 21, 2020 11:57 am

Not at all I'm an asexual
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Postby Candid » Sun Jun 21, 2020 12:15 pm

So don't bother. It's up to you.
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