Is it possible for a lesbian to change for a foreign man?

Postby curiousitystrike » Thu Aug 09, 2018 8:33 am

There’s this girl whom I got acquainted with through a foreign common friend. She’s a lesbian and is really gorgeous. I wonder why such gorgeous women suddenly come up to you and introduce themselves as lesbian. So, let’s go back. We’ve been friends for months and I unintentionally develop feelings for her which she had noticed. One night she came to me confessing that she may have felt something for me too. Is it possible for a lesbian to fully change? I mean, would it be worth the risk? Won’t she cheat on me with a beautiful girl? I know I wouldn’t know it unless I try. Just wanna ask because my friend had undergone such incident.
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Postby admmck81 » Tue Apr 09, 2019 2:01 pm

If she is truly a lesbian, she is not interested in men. That is how it goes. I also find it rather odd that she just introduced herself as a lesbian, which makes me wonder if she was just instantly friend-zoning you and is not truly a lesbian. I also find it odd that you decided to ask the question if it is possible for a lesbian to change for a foreign man...Where you are from has no relevance in this scenario at all. But the bottom line is, if she is interested in you, and if you are interested in her, then that is all you need to know. If she has feeling for you, nothing needs to change.
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Postby mute » Sat May 23, 2020 7:06 am

she could be bisexual
she could be a feminist and recruiting you so she can brainwash you later to be "on her team" as a boy toy
she could use you as a sperm donor and go back to her girlfriend etc.

ask questions and find out her motives.
and if she does like you then enjoy the moment and don't take it too seriously.
there are so many girls available besides her, you shouldn't get hung up on a person. that will only push her away
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Postby GalmOne » Thu Jun 25, 2020 9:43 am

If she's an actual lesbian, don't try and insist, you'll just make her hate you.
And if she introduced herself as such, it may be because she noticed you were interested in her and wanted you to understand immediately that there's no chance for success, so that you don't get too invested in her and make yourself sad.
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