I don't know how to go ahead.

Postby Guess what? » Sat Aug 11, 2018 3:03 pm

Times are changed, and looks like guys who wanna sentimental relatioships are marked as weirdo and boring.
So I was reading how you have to act like if you don't wanna anything for the woman who you like, so she startes to like you. This is nonsense, but I mean that kind of nonsense that actually seems to work.
But then how can I show my interesting in a determinated girl? Can I say compliments without looking like a p**sy dude, I mean a "Hi beauty" shouldn't kill anyone.

Then, I read that if you are looking for a relationship in early age it is just 'cause you are desperate (so am i) and when you taste it, you will regret your freedom. Indeed, I was in a starting long term story, but she was really chocking.
From one extreme to the other, or they don't care me at all, or that one don't let me alone for a moment.
But sure I don't like much the idea of being a playboy, but looks like if I'm not like this I won't get anything (and for being clear, i'm tired of owning and waiting).

Any tips?
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Aug 11, 2018 4:30 pm

Guess what? wrote:Any tips?

What do you really want, GW?

Do you think that being in a relationship will solve your problems, or make your life complete?

What, deep down, do you really want?
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Postby Guess what? » Sat Aug 11, 2018 5:56 pm

Being in a relationship. Being happy with my one, and make her happy too.
But seems like looking for this keeps away girls. it happened to me too. And many statistics show how girls nowadays want to be free about sex life, and since open relationship are not looked good by many, they want to avoid serious story.

Other problems that come out with a relationship i think it is 'cause people in general don't respect others' freedom, or just they're scared about being betrayed. I think I'm beyond of this now.
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Aug 11, 2018 7:07 pm

Guess what? wrote:Being in a relationship. Being happy with my one, and make her happy too.

Why do you think that a relationship will make you happy?

Are you not happy right now?

And I repeat, do you think that being in a relationship will solve your problems, or make your life complete?
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Postby Guess what? » Sat Aug 11, 2018 10:14 pm

Yes i do.
I was happier in a relationship
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