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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 10, 2018 3:53 pm

She said she wants to come visit me..I have some doubts about it..I said don't come for now..does that make her upset..I'm so alone need her support need to hear her happy.
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Postby Candid » Mon Sep 17, 2018 12:00 pm

She wants to visit and you want to talk to her. What's to have doubts about?
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 17, 2018 1:39 pm

What happens to me at evenings after sleeping is doubtful. If I were sure that nothing happens I would like to stay with her for s long time
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 17, 2018 2:07 pm

I was to call my mother but changed idea. My morale is too low fed up with life specially my work I'm boring people my only thing at ucf. I'm just an idiot what can I do?
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 17, 2018 3:27 pm

I'm calling my mother to invite her..It may be a big mistake though.
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 17, 2018 3:31 pm

Melancholic weird feelings arise..I hate it. I may be in a much worse position if my worries about evenings realise. Can't decide..
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 17, 2018 4:08 pm

I decided to invite her candid what say you
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Sep 17, 2018 5:06 pm

Just wanna say good night to everyone..and please excuse my idiocy..
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Postby Candid » Tue Sep 18, 2018 7:03 pm

desperate788 wrote:What happens to me at evenings after sleeping is doubtful. If I were sure that nothing happens I would like to stay with her for s long time


This is intriguing. Do you think you might turn into a werewolf and bite her?

I'm calling my mother to invite her..It may be a big mistake though.


Nah. I don't believe you'd bite anyone, least of all your mother.

I may be in a much worse position if my worries about evenings realise.


Okay. I'll bite. :D What do you think happens in the evenings after you've been asleep for a while? Do you sleepwalk or something?

I decided to invite her candid what say you


I say bravo! Give her a hug and thank her from me for making such a lovely son.
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Sep 18, 2018 7:21 pm

Candid it's so kind of you to compliment. .Thank you :) this message lifted my spirit after another hard day..I don't harm my mother at evenings she subconsciously programmed by my father I think hurts I forget everything when I wake up..It's confusing but something happens and my mood deteriorates anyway my mother says she will come in a week or two..We made trip plans to izmir and foca..It will be nice I think..Thanks again candid and have a great evening :)
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Postby Candid » Sun Sep 23, 2018 5:31 pm

You're not making sense, darling. You say you don't harm your mother in the evenings AND you forget everything when you wake up. Where's the harm in that?

Whatever your father has or hasn't done to your mother isn't your fault.

I think it's great she's coming to see you, and I hope you'll both enjoy the trips you've planned. :D
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Sep 23, 2018 5:43 pm

Hearing from you makes everything better :) thank you..to clarify things the harmer is my mother she hurts in a subconscious different state I think she forgets it too. I believe my father programs this. I hope this time she doesn't do anything and I enjoy my trips :)
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Postby Candid » Sun Sep 23, 2018 5:54 pm

I think I've got it this time: you think your father has programmed your mother to hurt you. Is that right?

That kind of thinking is usually associated with serious mental illness.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Sep 23, 2018 5:59 pm

Right..I know it's called paranoia. But in this case what I suspect is true. My mood seriously deteriorates after a night under same roof with my mothet after this thing started. I'm interesting I just can't understand whats really happening to myself it's ignoring escaping or something else just can't understand what's really going on its a big problem..
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Postby Candid » Sun Sep 23, 2018 6:04 pm

Have you been able to talk to her about it? I know you told her you were worried about her and she made it clear she isn't going to leave your father, but have you explicitly told her you think she's been programmed?

I know men can be very controlling of their wives. My husband is very strong-minded, has definite opinions on everything, and I've found myself changing to accommodate him. Is that the kind of thing you mean?
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