A random girl likes me and I don't know what to do .

Postby Lef7er » Sat Jan 05, 2019 7:35 pm

One day may friend sent me a screenshot of a one girl saying that she likes me . I don't know the girl , only thing I know is that she lives close to me . She seme like a nice and funny girl . The other day when I was outside
(park) whitt that same friend ( Luk ) and one other friend ( Fred ) , she and her 2 friends came to the park and just sat on the chairs , not that away from as . Luk and Fred just keep saying that I need to go and ask her. But I didn't know what to do. So I did nothing . I know that this situation will happen again . So what to do , what to say in front of her friends ( she is never alone ) .
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Jan 05, 2019 11:12 pm

You walk over and say, “Hello, my name is _____, what’s your name?”

Then ask her, “Can I ask for a small favor?”

As with most people, they will say some version of yes or maybe, but not no. She will be intrigued a little, wondering what might the favor be.

Then say, “My friends were giving me a hard time about being too nervous to talk to a girl. If they see us talking for a few minutes, that would prove them wrong. Will you help me?”

Then just have a conversation. Find some shared interests. Express thanks for her being willing to help and that you owe her one, that if she ever needs anything to let you know.
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Postby Livetowin » Mon Jan 07, 2019 12:39 pm

The first fact you need to embrace is you don't know this individual. Before you make too big a deal out of this and apply weight to something that shouldn't have any, just realize that someone allegedly liking you does not speak to who they are. We fill in the blanks from afar when we want something. Someone filtering a message to you who then sits at a park to look at you with expectation is doing allot of staging, so it's not organic in how you're meeting them .

So before you feel obliged to "do something", just understand you carry all of the assumption here. You don't know her and her intentions are very unclear. If that makes you feel uncomfortable, don't get yourself involved. We don't live in the Andy Griffith era anymore, so I'm reluctant to treat this as a girl sitting on the opposite end of your favorite fishing hole.

Just be careful. This is a stranger. Profiling her as a "girl who likes you," sounds like you're lowering your guard into "awe shucks" territory. But it you're intrigued enough to look into the matter, then just introduce yourself by first name only and see how the conversation flows. Just be protective of your personal information and see if you can establish a better picture of who this person is and what she wants. Then you can make a better decision about what, if anything, you want to do from there.
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Postby Vernies » Tue Jan 15, 2019 10:34 am

You don't know the girl "really" likes you till you speak to her and get interested in her, your friend's recommendation is just a recommendation. Looks like you just want to get laid, and you do not get laid often too. If you proceed to think and act like you never talked and deserved any girl who likes you before, don't even bother going to talk the girl. Because it will hurt your feelings.

Assume you're a likable guy, it's nothing out of ordinary that a girl will like you. You go to the girl and get interested in "her" and not yourself to get laid.

For example, you do not tell her your name unless she asks for it. Train her to act accordingly as she likes you and make some effort.

"Hey, I saw you there. What's your name?" and you get interested in her. You're not talking about you not because you know you're boring etc. , it's just that you're confident and want to get to know her, and you're not even sure after knowing her you will want to hang out longer.

What to do in this situation:
If she's with her friends, go with your friends, and say something like, "Hey, what's up? We're going to this and this and gonna have lunch, you guys want to come with us?" then if she really likes you, she makes it easy for you, gives you her number if she likes you really much etc.

Do not be the creepy guy and go for it.
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