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Postby GabrilleNantes » Wed Mar 06, 2019 5:41 am

I feel like I do not think about anything anymore, I do nor have opinions or interests or topics that truly interest me at all. I cannot hold conversations with people because I do not know anything about any topic or even I have read something recently I cannot remember it to add to the conversation, or when I talk I sound so incoherent, because my mind inside is messy.
I feel I have lost my personality completly, when I was younger I remember I had lots of interests, particpated in many things, was fun to be around, was smart, but now, there is nothing going on in my head, I do not know who I am or what I like, I have tried reading more but I cannot remember anything the day after.
I do not know what I want for my life, I feel so lost rigth now. I just want to understand what is wrong with me , id it mught be depression or something else,(it terrifies me to think that is tje way I am) and what do I have to do to fix it! I feel so frustrated ....
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Wed Mar 06, 2019 9:28 am

GabrilleNantes wrote:I feel like I do not think about anything anymore, I do nor have opinions or interests


Yet you are thinking about your current state of affairs and expressing it in a coherent manner, and you have an opinion on what it might be, so you have an interest in fixing it.

In other words, the issue seems to be less about you not thinking or having opinions and more about low self confidence.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 07, 2019 11:54 am

GabrilleNantes wrote:I feel like I do not think about anything anymore, I do nor have opinions or interests or topics that truly interest me at all. I cannot hold conversations with people because I do not know anything about any topic or even I have read something recently I cannot remember it to add to the conversation, or when I talk I sound so incoherent, because my mind inside is messy.
I feel I have lost my personality completly, when I was younger I remember I had lots of interests, particpated in many things, was fun to be around, was smart, but now, there is nothing going on in my head, I do not know who I am or what I like, I have tried reading more but I cannot remember anything the day after.
I do not know what I want for my life, I feel so lost rigth now. I just want to understand what is wrong with me , id it mught be depression or something else,(it terrifies me to think that is tje way I am) and what do I have to do to fix it! I feel so frustrated ....
Sorry for it to be so long
Thanks for reading


Nobody cares enough to give you real help. Its your life do what you want with it.
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Postby GabrilleNantes » Thu Mar 07, 2019 12:27 pm

BrokeSuicide wrote:
GabrilleNantes wrote:I feel like I do not think about anything anymore, I do nor have opinions or interests or topics that truly interest me at all. I cannot hold conversations with people because I do not know anything about any topic or even I have read something recently I cannot remember it to add to the conversation, or when I talk I sound so incoherent, because my mind inside is messy.
I feel I have lost my personality completly, when I was younger I remember I had lots of interests, particpated in many things, was fun to be around, was smart, but now, there is nothing going on in my head, I do not know who I am or what I like, I have tried reading more but I cannot remember anything the day after.
I do not know what I want for my life, I feel so lost rigth now. I just want to understand what is wrong with me , id it mught be depression or something else,(it terrifies me to think that is tje way I am) and what do I have to do to fix it! I feel so frustrated ....
Sorry for it to be so long
Thanks for reading


Nobody cares enough to give you real help. Its your life do what you want with it.


If do not have something meaningful or useful to say please do not say anything.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 07, 2019 12:45 pm

I'm free to say whatever I want. You have that same freedom.

And it is true that nobody cares enough to offer you real help. The message is clear from people who post of this site time and time again like Richard is that you are responsible for your life and you determine what happens with it. There is no help other than the help you give yourself. In other words you are alone and it is up to you to deal with whatever life throws at you.

Have fun.
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Postby Candid » Thu Mar 07, 2019 4:15 pm

BrokeSuicide wrote:And it is true that nobody cares enough to offer you real help.


Actually, people do care, here and IRL. But when someone doesn't care enough to help himself, no one can do anything for him.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 07, 2019 4:23 pm

Candid,

We just differ on the word care. You believe that a few words on an internet forum is super duper help. Sometimes its okay but often its just words and you call that as caring. I define the word deeper than that. But I don't think you understand that.
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Postby Candid » Thu Mar 07, 2019 5:06 pm

BrokeSuicide wrote:You believe that a few words on an internet forum is super duper help.


No. I don't. But I do know that both you and desperate788 keep coming back here because any kind of human contact is better than none. Dozens of people have made suggestions to both of you as to how you might improve your lives. It's up to you what you do with that.

often its just words and you call that as caring.


No. I don't call words caring. Only I know whether and to what extent I care about other people.

I define the word deeper than that.


Let me guess: for you, if people on the forum cared, we would send you every penny we have. That would show we care.

But I don't think you understand that.


You underestimate me.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Fri Mar 08, 2019 2:48 am

Candid wrote:Let me guess: for you, if people on the forum cared, we would send you every penny we have. That would show we care.


Exactly.

Over the years members have provided exhaustive advice to Jason, which he claims to implement and it all fails for him. No advice ever, has worked or improved his lot in life, not a single time. For all of the advice provided by members, Jason claims to be worse off today than yesterday.

What then demonstrates “care” in an online forum? If not the advice provided, if not the words shared, if not the time spent by members offering ways to address life’s issues, it is then reduced to “send me money.”

Jason, if you want more money let me give you another piece of caring advice. The time you waste in here would be better spent begging in the street. For every post in here, that is another few quid you could be gathering up in your local community.

If begging is not appealing, then try busking for money. Practice standing very still and become one of the street entertainers. I love those guys! And I always give them a £ or two.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Fri Mar 08, 2019 9:28 am

Candid wrote:
BrokeSuicide wrote:You believe that a few words on an internet forum is super duper help.


No. I don't.


Then why do you do it?

often its just words and you call that as caring.


No. I don't call words caring.


Then why do you do it?

I define the word deeper than that.


Let me guess: for you, if people on the forum cared, we would send you every penny we have. That would show we care.


Do whatever you want.

But I don't think you understand that.


You underestimate me.


I doubt it.
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