Depression issues and symptoms.

Postby Fade_Black » Tue Mar 19, 2019 11:42 am

Hi,my issues remain for many years are the same and i fear to deal with them and try overcome the complexes,i have symptoms of depression for more than 10 years in a row.

1.Lack of friendships from school years till nowdays,i can't approach friends,every time they ignoring me with excuses. :(
2.Lack of relationships from school years till nowdays,never had even a simple date with girl in my whole life. :|
3.Multiplie failures to studies and degrees,couldn't study and try hard,i was retiring in first difficulty i faced.This gave me no opportunities to get a normal job out there,but few boring and with bad salary jobs.
4.Loneliness,always felt out of this world,self abandonment in my room,no fun,no vacations,no experiences nowhere,at 32 yo seem like going nowhere,without plan,without motivation for life.
5.Parents never was with my side,always was doing what they like and not what could give me some plessure back,a hobby or whatever else.
6.I'm overweight cause of dissapointments and every time i say to my self i should start a diet program and exercise to get in a better shape/condition,i retire in the middle of it and return back in the same old point. :| :roll:

I'm stuck all over the years without can find the courage,the motivation to get strength through my difficulties.There is no path or faith to follow,i'm like my emotions are locked in a jail.
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Postby Fade_Black » Wed Mar 20, 2019 8:42 pm

Anyone to get some discussion?
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Postby Candid » Thu Mar 21, 2019 6:19 am

I've responded on your other thread. Perhaps you want a different answer?
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Postby Fade_Black » Thu Mar 21, 2019 9:38 am

BrokeSuicide wrote:
Fade_Black wrote:Anyone to get some discussion?


Sorry. Not many people care.


I see,seems not too friendly here. :roll:
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 21, 2019 10:07 am

Yeah thats life. Don't expect anything from people. They don't owe you anything. Sorry but the truth is if you died or whatever people wouldn't stop to pause they just go on with their lives. and what help are you expecting? the best they have is words on a screen.
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Postby Candid » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:05 am

Fade_Black wrote:I see,seems not too friendly here. :roll:


You'll get used to us if you stick around.

BrokeSuicide wrote:Sorry but the truth is if you died or whatever people wouldn't stop to pause they just go on with their lives.


The people who know this new member would certainly pause. No one at all can be expected to stop going on with their/our lives.

and what help are you expecting? the best they have is words on a screen.


No doubt you can think of better. Let's have it, then.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:09 am

No doubt you can think of better. Let's have it, then.


Yeah maybe...maybe not. But what I would offer is money to this person. (and I would try and get other people to help like say 200 people who could give £50-100 or whatever)

That would be 20k. 20k to actually do what you want to sort your problems and kick start your life. I offered people money before (yourself Candid you said no...okay) I offer money to findom (i used to) and I liked how that person has an amazing life (as well as jerking my tiny dick to the thought of it) but I also knew "huh...look at that amazing life.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:11 am

The people who know this new member would certainly pause.


Do you know him? (you know him as a member on this forum does that count as "knowing.?")
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Postby Candid » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:22 am

BrokeSuicide wrote:Yeah maybe...maybe not.


Not, apparently. There is already a way for people to solicit money. It's just that money is rarely the proble, and where it is, banks step in.

Do you know him? (you know him as a member on this forum does that count as "knowing.?")


I don't need to know more than that. His posts show he isn't living on an otherwise uninhabited island.

Fade_Black wrote:There is no path or faith to follow,i'm like my emotions are locked in a jail.


See? You have company in prison.
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Postby BrokeSuicide » Thu Mar 21, 2019 11:24 am

Not, apparently. There is already a way for people to solicit money. It's just that money is rarely the proble, and where it is, banks step in.


Oh I see...Im sorry.

you still stuck to that system the one where they build houses for people and you made a big deal about you not living in the house supplied through that system. You see I'm a person who has "walked through a door" and trying to abolish the system because I am not helpless. but you want to stick to the system...okay. fine. then I have nothing to offer. go to the bank and follow the system you two faced cow LOL

yesterday you were on about the stupidity of all the rest of the world, which you call "you people". You claimed (post 207): I only bought a house because that is the system you lot go by I am not buying a house, so whose system is it?


Neither do I. Where is this system that Jason claims forces people to buy houses? A fabrication of Jason’s mind. The imaginary “system” that forces, that compels Jason to do things he doesn’t wish to do.

Learned helplessness. 1964 experiment. 1/3 of the dogs previously shocked while caged learned how to avoid the electric shock in a follow up experiment. But, 2/3 of the dogs sat there whimpering, believing they were helpless.


so the banks...are they this imaginary system that Richard is referring to? because when I say system I mean banks, governement, social norms etc...i assume these are also imaginary?
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Postby speakin » Fri Mar 22, 2019 6:45 am

Although depression may occur only once during your life, people typically have multiple episodes. During these episodes, symptoms occur most of the day, nearly every day and may include:

Feelings of sadness, tearfulness, emptiness or hopelessness
Angry outbursts, irritability or frustration, even over small matters
Loss of interest or pleasure in most or all normal activities, such as sex, hobbies or sports
Sleep disturbances, including insomnia or sleeping too much
Tiredness and lack of energy, so even small tasks take extra effort
Reduced appetite and weight loss or increased cravings for food and weight gain
Anxiety, agitation or restlessness
Slowed thinking, speaking or body movements
Feelings of worthlessness or guilt, fixating on past failures or self-blame
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Postby Fade_Black » Sun Mar 24, 2019 4:58 pm

Candid wrote:See? You have company in prison.


Didn't laugh much i have to say,cold joke though. :roll: When i signed up here i thought it was somekind of support psychology forum,but i was wrong finally. :? I will ask from Mr Kirstin Asher to have a pm with me,i have to ask him something.
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Postby Fade_Black » Sun Mar 31, 2019 8:44 pm

Lock it or delete thread,i'm bored here,should try other psychology forum,sorry. :| :arrow:
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Postby hojoos » Fri May 03, 2019 6:22 pm

I have this symptoms too
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Postby James_Lee » Fri May 03, 2019 11:08 pm

You have to start by action. Words are not going to help. Join a local club or something. Get involved in some recreational activities, and take it slowly from there. Do not rush it, though
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