I miss my mother

Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:01 am

It's some kind of melancholia I want to have good days with my mother by me I want to see her at home after a day at work
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 7:26 am

So why don't you?
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 8:06 am

She doesn't come to live with me
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 2:35 pm

Why should she? You won't go to live with her, either.
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 2:45 pm

You know work problems
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:04 pm

What do you think you might do about that?
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:08 pm

There is nothing much to do. I must change my job but I don't have the energy and motivation to do that. If I had its still misery that someone would hire me.
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:12 pm

So, what I'm hearing is that your job isn't bad enough, and you don't miss your mother enough, that you would quit and go to Istanbul.

The solution is up to you. No one here can make life better for you.
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:14 pm

Don't know what to say..I want to be with my mother and have an easier job.
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:48 pm

And you can't see the most obvious way to have that?
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 3:56 pm

Changing job? Resigning? Leaving everything behind and simply going home?
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 4:04 pm

Yes. Wouldn't that be great?
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 4:05 pm

Yes that would be great but consequences may be fatal.
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Postby Candid » Wed Apr 03, 2019 4:16 pm

There aren't any guarantees in life.

One day something will be fatal... for you, for me, for everybody. Will you have enjoyed your life, or will you have spent all of it being miserable?
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Apr 03, 2019 4:19 pm

I'm a weak man who is very afraid of dying but it's inevitable as you say. You are right.
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