Pursuer Distancer relationship after infidelity

Postby 7Thursday » Thu Jul 04, 2019 3:16 pm

I am trying to win back my wife. I am the betrayed pursuer. How do I do this when my wife will not give me closure. She still has the burner phone. Won’t connect with me but I see she wants for us. I need articles, videos, education or anything I can get to help. I will explain more in detail later but anything to help is GREATLY appreciated.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Thu Jul 04, 2019 3:31 pm

The absolute best thing you can do...

Stop pursuing.

As long as you are in pursuit she knows you are an option, that you are available.

Only when the possibility exists that you will no longer be there will she even begin to consider what she might lose.

Right now, she can think about other things. Right now, she can pursue other relationships, other activities in life, because she knows you will be there.

Stop being there, stop the pursuit. Only then will things possibly change.
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