Am I doing the right thing

Postby desperate788 » Fri Jul 12, 2019 4:24 pm

By avoiding antidepressants? Doctor says without drugs serotonin system may deteriote to a point that has no return and they may heal receptors.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Jul 12, 2019 9:44 pm

I need a doctor in case of legal trouble
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Postby Candid » Fri Jul 12, 2019 10:15 pm

No, desperate, you're not doing the right thing.

The right thing is taking responsibility for your own experience of life like any other adult, which means knowing what you want, then going out and getting it.

The wrong thing is knowing what you want and thinking someone else should (or even can) make it happen for you.

Neither your mother, nor your doctor, nor any member of the Uncommon Forum, can wave a magic wand to put you where you say you want to be.

Make a decision, and make it right.
    If you want to live closer to your mother in Istanbul, take the steps you need to take to get there, and have faith that you've done the right thing.
    If you want to go on working in Manisa, or Antep, or wherever the tax office sends you next, find some friends, have a laugh, take the money and enjoy what it pays for.

STOP COMPLAINING.

DO SOMETHING.

MAKE A DECISION, AND MAKE IT RIGHT.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Jul 12, 2019 10:51 pm

Everyone asks for help from people who knows better I'm not qualified in mental help so ask to people who knows better I made the decision to go to istanbul the problem is will tax office accept it
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jul 13, 2019 12:36 am

Any problem with Istanbul.. Which city would you choose
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jul 13, 2019 1:30 am

A typo or something should I take these drugs
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Postby Candid » Sat Jul 13, 2019 8:11 am

desperate788 wrote:I made the decision to go to istanbul the problem is will tax office accept it


Tell them you're going, and find out. I don't see how they can stop you, but maybe they can. You surely know better than anyone else on the forum what the tax office can and can't do.

Any problem with Istanbul.. Which city would you choose


Guaranteed there'll be problems anywhere you go. There will also be lots of opportunities and other good stuff, but if you're attuned to problems, you see problems. If you expect good stuff, you'll see good stuff.

What am I saying, IF you're attuned to problems? :lol: A gazillion posts here say pretty much everything is "a problem" to you. Some people never have "problems", they only have "challenges" or "opportunities". Same situation, different ways of looking at it.

should I take these drugs


It's up to you, desperate. Like everything else in your life.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jul 13, 2019 11:22 am

Thanks for clarification
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Postby ValidSteve » Fri Jul 26, 2019 4:19 pm

Candid wrote:No, desperate, you're not doing the right thing.

The right thing is taking responsibility for your own experience of life like any other adult, which means knowing what you want, then going out and getting it.

The wrong thing is knowing what you want and thinking someone else should (or even can) make it happen for you.

Neither your mother, nor your doctor, nor any member of the Uncommon Forum, can wave a magic wand to put you where you say you want to be.

Make a decision, and make it right.
    If you want to live closer to your mother in Istanbul, take the steps you need to take to get there, and have faith that you've done the right thing.
    If you want to go on working in Manisa, or Antep, or wherever the tax office sends you next, find some friends, have a laugh, take the money and enjoy what it pays for.

STOP COMPLAINING.

DO SOMETHING.

MAKE A DECISION, AND MAKE IT RIGHT.



You sound like a proper c***. Leave this man alone, your terrible advice has nothing to do with his original question about taking an SSRI. Seriously, take your own advice, be an adult, as adults don't follow random forum users around harassing them.

I've seen in another post where you basically told him to end it all. Please, you need to learn some self control.
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Postby quietvoice » Fri Jul 26, 2019 6:11 pm

ValidSteve wrote:You sound like a proper c***. Leave this man alone, your terrible advice has nothing to do with his original question about taking an SSRI. Seriously, take your own advice, be an adult, as adults don't follow random forum users around harassing them.

I've seen in another post where you basically told him to end it all. Please, you need to learn some self control.

Have you ever stuck your nose into the middle of a conversation between two people without knowing the context of the conversation and said something stupid?

There's a long history of posts (between desperate and Candid and other members, including me) that are freely available for viewing here. If you would peruse these for awhile, you would see where Candid is coming from.
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Postby Candid » Sat Jul 27, 2019 10:46 am

ValidSteve wrote:adults don't follow random forum users around harassing them.


No, indeed. Nor would they use offensive language if they did.

I've seen in another post where you basically told him to end it all.


This forum takes a dim view of incitement to violence, including suicide, and moderators rely on members using the :!: icon above any such post. If you balk at doing that while you have so few runs on the board, let me know where you saw it and I'll report it for you.
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Postby AhmetCoskun » Sat Jul 27, 2019 6:55 pm

You should listen calming music and relax yourself.
Listen to this:
https://youtu.be/7uNoIurbB-E
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