Sibling Experimentation guilt is eating me alive

Postby Sb56 » Sat Aug 24, 2019 12:31 am

Okay so I’ll just get straight into this. So when I was about 10 possibly 11 I sexual experimented with my 4 to 5 year old sister. And I feel absolutely horrible about it. And it’s been now eating me up for 4 years. It’s like I can never shake the thought. And it just comes up randomly throughout the day. Like a annoying alarm clock. I now in the back of my mind think I’m a rapist or molester or something. Even tho I know I’m not, that’s all I can think. I’m 18 and I often feel depressed that I will never shake this horrible feeling of guilt. Like I can seriously feel it though my body. Im honestly so desperate for any help.
Sb56
New Member
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Sat Aug 24, 2019 12:25 am
Likes Received: 0


#1

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Aug 24, 2019 3:52 am

Read all of the similar threads on the subject, of which 100% of them will explain your feelings are normal. The topic has been covered ad naseum.

And no, your case is not somehow different or special compared to all the other threads on the subject.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 10560
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 1081

#2

Postby Candid » Sat Aug 24, 2019 9:20 am

This'll start you off: viewtopic.php?t=107972
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 8428
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, UK #MeToo
Likes Received: 358

#3

Postby DavidJones56 » Thu Oct 31, 2019 7:44 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:Read all of the similar threads on the subject, of which 100% of them will explain your feelings are normal. The topic has been covered ad naseum.

And no, your case is not somehow different or special compared to all the other threads on the subject.


Is sibling experimenting in the UK going to get a person sent to prison and also is admitting it on a forum like yahoo answers going to get the person sent to prison ?
DavidJones56
 

#4

Postby DavidJones56 » Thu Oct 31, 2019 7:45 pm

Does sibling experimenting get a person sent to prison ? And is admitting to it on a forum like this or yahoo answers going to get the person investigated by the police (uk)
DavidJones56
 

#5

Postby DavidJones56 » Thu Oct 31, 2019 10:40 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:Read all of the similar threads on the subject, of which 100% of them will explain your feelings are normal. The topic has been covered ad naseum.

And no, your case is not somehow different or special compared to all the other threads on the subject.


Can we have a chat?
DavidJones56
 

#6

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Fri Nov 01, 2019 3:37 am

DavidJones56 wrote:Is sibling experimenting in the UK going to get a person sent to prison and also is admitting it on a forum like yahoo answers going to get the person sent to prison ?


No. Why? Because no crime was committed if both siblings were minors. Therefore there is nothing to investigate.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 10560
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 1081

#7

Postby Candid » Fri Nov 01, 2019 8:24 am

DavidJones56 wrote:Does sibling experimenting get a person sent to prison ? And is admitting to it on a forum like this or yahoo answers going to get the person investigated by the police (uk)


No and no.
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 8428
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, UK #MeToo
Likes Received: 358

#8

Postby DavidJones56 » Sat Nov 02, 2019 4:37 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
DavidJones56 wrote:Is sibling experimenting in the UK going to get a person sent to prison and also is admitting it on a forum like yahoo answers going to get the person sent to prison ?


No. Why? Because no crime was committed if both siblings were minors. Therefore there is nothing to investigate.


If you go on yahoo answers and different forums though they say it’s a big deal and police will be at the door
DavidJones56
 

#9

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Nov 03, 2019 12:00 am

DavidJones56 wrote: If you go on yahoo answers and different forums though they say it’s a big deal and police will be at the door


Then either:

-1- They are discussing an adult sibling molesting a minor sibling or;
-2- They have no idea what they are talking about.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 10560
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 1081

#10

Postby Candid » Sun Nov 03, 2019 11:32 am

I vote for the latter. All the evidence suggests people rarely involve the police, they just talk it out with a counsellor. And that's only the ones who are in any way upset about it. We can never know how many more just chalk it up to 'interesting' experience.

Besides, DavidJones56, is your main concern the guilt you feel over what you did, your sibling's possible distress -- or your fear of being punished for it?
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 8428
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, UK #MeToo
Likes Received: 358

#11

Postby DavidJones56 » Sun Nov 03, 2019 4:37 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
DavidJones56 wrote: If you go on yahoo answers and different forums though they say it’s a big deal and police will be at the door


Then either:

-1- They are discussing an adult sibling molesting a minor sibling or;
-2- They have no idea what they are talking about.


Would police do anything at all if someone phoned them and said “at age 12 I sexually experimented with my 9 year old brother/sister ??
DavidJones56
 

#12

Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sun Nov 03, 2019 4:54 pm

DavidJones56 wrote: Would police do anything at all if someone phoned them and said “at age 12 I sexually experimented with my 9 year old brother/sister ??


Trolling. Go away. The question has been repeatedly answered.

If you are not trolling and still can’t grasp the responses then you will just continue to suffer. Go seek professional therapy.

Either way. I’ve provided you the answer.
User avatar
Richard@DecisionSkills
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 10560
Joined: Sat Dec 08, 2012 2:25 am
Likes Received: 1081

#13

Postby DavidJones56 » Sun Nov 03, 2019 5:01 pm

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:
DavidJones56 wrote: Would police do anything at all if someone phoned them and said “at age 12 I sexually experimented with my 9 year old brother/sister ??


Trolling. Go away. The question has been repeatedly answered.

If you are not trolling and still can’t grasp the responses then you will just continue to suffer. Go seek professional therapy.

Either way. I’ve provided you the answer.


No I’m not a troll my friend but If you read candid’a answer above your answer she says it’s possible for police to get involved
DavidJones56
 

#14

Postby DavidJones56 » Sun Nov 03, 2019 5:24 pm

Have you seen her answer I am talking about ?
DavidJones56
 


Next

  • Similar Topics
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Return to Depression

cron