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#135

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 02, 2020 3:42 pm

Weekend is ending work day is getting closer I'm sad
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#136

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 02, 2020 4:18 pm

No one can save me
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#137

Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 8:49 am

I have to resign help
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#138

Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 9:19 am

I can't work today too
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#139

Postby Candid » Mon Feb 03, 2020 11:20 am

See my response on your What to do waste time thread.

You have a dilemma: stay in work you despise, or get out.

A dilemma is two options, both of which are unpleasant. Yours is not a true dilemma, because you don't know the consequences of option 2. You think you know, but you don't.

1) Stay in that job you hate and continue suffering
2) Walk away from that job and ... ???

In the ??? lies adventure, from which you will emerge stronger, wiser and better off, or much worse off while remaining the foolish moaning git you've been for at least a decade.

Your choice.
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#140

Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 11:26 am

I'm indeed a foolish moaning git but I don't want to go to this job I'm so fed up soon fed up its like a nightmare I should resign
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 11:50 am

I'm also going to my mother's tonight I just can't make the proper decisions she insisted I saI'd yes panic started I want to die
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Postby Candid » Mon Feb 03, 2020 5:13 pm

I can remember feeling like that about some of the jobs I did... but I never spent 10 years at any one of them. I resigned, or sometimes just left and never went back. There were some lean times I could have done without but hey, I'm still here.

Talk to your mother. She looks and sounds lovely. Tell her how bad things are for you, then do what she suggests.
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 5:25 pm

My mother is strictly against my resignation she always say there aren't many jobs in turkey and it's very hard to find a job. It's obvious she will be very sorry if I resign but if some of the developments I anticipate happen at work I may be obliged to tell her I must resign I'm a depressed anxious moron and have nothing to do with a job my suffering is unbelievable I've lost the will to live everything seems in darkness I fear if my resignation won't be accepted such jerks I will just won't go then I damn the day I started this job any tactics to ease my mother's response
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 5:51 pm

Things are so bad for me should I be sorry to have such a problematic job or having one of the worst mental disease in history or having a sister trying to make my situation worse I have to see her when I see my only real life emotional support my mother. Things are going so bad for me and I need help
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Feb 03, 2020 5:52 pm

I don't want to face panic attacks alone I don't want to be alone at all
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Postby Candid » Tue Feb 04, 2020 12:25 pm

desperate788 wrote:My mother is strictly against my resignation


Have you told her you keep wishing you were dead? It might make a difference.

I fear if my resignation won't be accepted such jerks I will just won't go then


Sure. What do you think they might do, come and drag you in?
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Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 04, 2020 12:34 pm

If they don't accept my resignation I will have to not going to work according to law you are fired after ten days I'm just waiting comission and developments I may resign
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#148

Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 04, 2020 7:20 pm

Day is about to end..tomorrow work :( I don't want to live this way.
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#149

Postby quietvoice » Wed Feb 05, 2020 12:44 am

desperate788 wrote: I don't want to live this way.

Well, if you wanted to, you could do something about changing your circumstances.

What can these creatures do in their circumstances?
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