Staying alive

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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 2:49 pm

desperate788 wrote:Thank you candy apples and quietvoice. Seeing someone post is nice. I hope I keep my mother safe through this but it's said to be long seeing hearing my sister at her house I can't stand. I think I must go home. By the way tax office says work from home it's not clear how long it will last that's good

Tax office sent a detailed mail regard to rules of work from home.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 2:50 pm

They say if you act against the rules work from home may be cancelled.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 3:21 pm

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desperate788 wrote:Thank you candy apples and quietvoice. Seeing someone post is nice. I hope I keep my mother safe through this but it's said to be long seeing hearing my sister at her house I can't stand. I think I must go home. By the way tax office says work from home it's not clear how long it will last that's good

Tax office sent a detailed mail regard to rules of work from home.

So i won't go to work. I hope this isn't a problem for you. I'm indeed sorry.
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Postby Candid » Thu Mar 26, 2020 5:09 pm

desperate788 wrote:last thing I need was a killer virus.


As long as you realise this isn't about you, my friend.

They say virus remains alive for three days at surfaces. I had a glove at market and had to touch my wallet . It's nearly impossible to avoid transmission at market. Can anyone provide some insight?


You've already amply demonstrated that your life is filled with fearfulness for petty reasons. You keep saying you wish your life was over, while filled with terror that you'll catch covid-19. How does this add up?

Take such precautions as you can and trust in your ability to handle whatever happens to you. We all have to die someday. I'm not ready yet, nor are you.

Trust God -- and tie your camel.
"They say" is already halfway to being a lie; and

A lie gets halfway around the world before the truth has a chance to get its pants on. ~ Winston Churchill

Stop writing about your sister in this way. You've made dozens of vague accusations but not come up with a single actual thing she's done to you.

Stay home, stay safe. Acknowledge other people but keep your distance.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 5:17 pm

Virus probably won't kill me but my mother is at risk. There are times I really wish to die there are times I don't want to so much. I may stay at my own house but my mother tells me to stay with her maybe my sister is manipulating her. This is style of my sister and dead father they mask their intentions operate in a deeper way for their ultimate intention ruin my life. As I'm very sensitive I am vulnerable to their tactics. Just being close to my sister annoys me. I couldn't eat anything all day so annoying.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 5:22 pm

And candid please be careful about the virus.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 6:32 pm

Everytime I have a look at news I get more worried about my mother and people at board.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 6:34 pm

Candid I like you so much too..
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 9:06 pm

Anyone for a midnight chat? What's going to happen to me? Will I see good days?
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 9:08 pm

Can my sister manipulate my mother to harm me in a subconscious level?
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 26, 2020 9:09 pm

The easy solution is to go my own house but if something happens to my mother after I leave I will be very sorry.
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Postby Candid » Fri Mar 27, 2020 6:38 am

desperate788 wrote:Virus probably won't kill me but my mother is at risk.


This is why I urge you not to keep coming and going.

There are times I really wish to die there are times I don't want to so much.


No, you don't want to die, you just want to feel better about life -- and that's up to you.

maybe my sister is manipulating her. This is style of my sister and dead father they mask their intentions operate in a deeper way for their ultimate intention ruin my life. As I'm very sensitive I am vulnerable to their tactics. Just being close to my sister annoys me. I couldn't eat anything all day so annoying.


What tactics? Your sister is just living her life. No doubt she gets fed up with you, too. She has no motivation to ruin your life, nor would she have the power if she wanted to.

You ruin your own life by being gloomy all the time and blaming other people for your misery.

Can my sister manipulate my mother to harm me in a subconscious level?


No. That's just you harming yourself with your own imagination.

The easy solution is to go my own house but if something happens to my mother after I leave I will be very sorry.


Stay with your mother if she wants you to, or go to your own place and stay there. The less you move about, the less likelihood there is of you infecting someone else or being infected yourself.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 27, 2020 9:03 am

Good morning candid. I'm sure about my sisters intentions to harm me she can't stand me enjoying life it's doubtful if she can but I think she managed to make me stuck at home. I just can't decide to go my own house or not my disease deteriorates here.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Mar 27, 2020 9:25 am

Now my mother said to me do what you want to.
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Postby Candid » Fri Mar 27, 2020 10:14 am

desperate788 wrote:I'm sure about my sisters intentions to harm me


This is not your sister's behaviour.

she can't stand me enjoying life


Nor is this.

I think she managed to...


Nor this.

In fact these are all your behaviour: you're "sure", you "believe" or you "think" your sister is out to cause you trouble. You believed the same of your father until the day he died.

I've asked you several times what, exactly, is your sister "doing to" you, and the answer is: nothing. Your sister is doing nothing to harm you, and your father didn't either.

Now my mother said to me do what you want to.


Your endless complaint is bad for your mother's immune system as well as your own. For that reason, and because it affects everyone around you, it's probably true that your sister would prefer you to leave.
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