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#420

Postby Candid » Wed Feb 05, 2020 4:37 pm

Candid likes posts #415 and #417.
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#421

Postby desperate788 » Wed Feb 05, 2020 4:38 pm

That's the point as I can't take the decision to resign someone doing it for me they save me from this job by other words. I'm indeed quite pathetic.
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#422

Postby Candid » Wed Feb 05, 2020 4:41 pm

desperate788 wrote:I can't take the decision to resign


I know I'm going to regret this, but...
Why not???
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Feb 05, 2020 4:45 pm

Money insurance and mostly upsetting my mother. I can't do the things my mother doesn't confirm I'm like a child I think reasons are these why do you think I can't resign also there are worries if they force me to work on
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#424

Postby Candid » Wed Feb 05, 2020 5:07 pm

desperate788 wrote:I'm like a child


Then go back to mother and tell her she hasn't done her job with you and she's got to grow you up, so you can make some decisions and actually carry them out.
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Feb 05, 2020 5:31 pm

My mother is a good intended but not very well educated woman. She thinks she cares about me. I suspect at my teens my father set up this disaster the desperate case.
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#426

Postby Candid » Thu Feb 06, 2020 8:35 am

desperate788 wrote:My mother is a good intended but not very well educated woman.


She's better at managing her life than you are, and she raised you to legal if not emotional adulthood.

She thinks she cares about me.


No one could care about you enough, desperate. No matter what your mother or anyone else did for you, you'd still be complaining. You're a bottomless pit of self-pity.

Everyone has challenges. Most of us just get on with it. You enjoy wallowing.

In any case, if you have so little respect for your mother's abilities, why do you need her approval to resign from your job?

I suspect at my teens my father set up this disaster the desperate case.


This is nonsense, and the kind of thing that has made UF members think you have schizophrenia. Seriously, if you said that to a psychiatrist, he or she would have you locked up. And that might be a good thing.
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#427

Postby quietvoice » Thu Feb 06, 2020 11:52 am

Candid wrote:In any case, if you have so little respect for your mother's abilities, why do you need her approval to resign from your job?


This

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#428

Postby desperate788 » Thu Feb 06, 2020 11:59 am

Because I'm like a baby I couldn't grow up. Sometimes I wish schizophrenia and go to mental hospital and leave all these mess behind. For that I think I must quit drugs I think and guess what I can't do that so there remains no solution for my suffering at work
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#429

Postby desperate788 » Thu Feb 06, 2020 12:02 pm

Also when I lack money my only source will be my mother
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#430

Postby Candid » Thu Feb 06, 2020 1:18 pm

Poor you.
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#431

Postby desperate788 » Thu Feb 06, 2020 1:55 pm

Right poor me
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#432

Postby quietvoice » Thu Feb 06, 2020 8:29 pm

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me

No. Poor me. The challenges I'm encountering in my new position are getting me down this afternoon.

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me

Poor me. I'm allowing the challenges to get me down. What should I do?

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me

Poor me. It's going much slower than I first expected.

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me

Poor me. I have a lot riding on my getting this endeavor going, and going strong.

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me

Poor me. I don't want to think about what might happen if this doesn't work out.

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me

Poor me.
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#433

Postby quietvoice » Thu Feb 06, 2020 11:27 pm

desperate788 wrote:Right poor me


Pretty lady Renee is here again.

There is one word in her talk of which you probably don't know the meaning, and then you can ask me about that. Otherwise, everything she says is straight forward English.

Pay attention to her backstory. She had to overcome her thinking about her childhood, just like you do.


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#434

Postby Candid » Fri Feb 07, 2020 7:07 am

"When you no longer find value in playing the victim, healing is instant."

Nice one, quietvoice.
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