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#435

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:08 am

I can't understand how that will cure my anxiety that is very intense today too
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#436

Postby Candid » Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:17 am

Nothing's gong to cure you, desperate. The point of her message was that you have to cure yourself. It's just a decision.

I know how this will pan out, because the only decision I've seen you make is that you "can't" make decisions. You don't realise that you've already decided nothing will work for you, therefore someone else has to save you.

The point is, no one else can. Only you can.
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#437

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:24 am

I'm sick for ages I couldn't change and I don't think I will be able to.
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#438

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 8:26 am

How can I cure my anxiety. Drugs are made to help but they don't work for me.
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#439

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 10:25 am

Is staying at my mom's house impairing my health? I like and miss my mother so much.
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#440

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 10:26 am

The fact is I was away from mother for a decade and I didn't heal
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#441

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 11:23 am

I wanted to live but fate didn't let
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#442

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 12:26 pm

Silence..but deadly.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 3:44 pm

desperate788 wrote:Silence..but deadly.

I'm so hopeless
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#444

Postby Candid » Sat Feb 08, 2020 8:27 am

Candid wrote:You don't realise that you've already decided nothing will work for you, therefore someone else has to save you.

The point is, no one else can. Only you can.
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#445

Postby quietvoice » Sun Feb 09, 2020 2:09 pm

desperate788 wrote:Silence..but deadly.



In reply to this post in another thread:
desperate788 wrote:What kind of help you need? . . .

[Though I couldn't find the relief] hope you find.

Excellent! You are reaching out to others to possibly offer a helping hand . . .

No, wait a minute . . .



desperate788 wrote: I appeal for help everyday here but no one helps. I just don't want to go to work. Though I couldn't find the relief . . .

No, I was wrong. You came here to lodge yet another complaint that those outside of yourself cannot save you.

As gleaned by Candid from this video,

"When you no longer find value in playing the victim, healing is instant."







Candid wrote:You don't realise that you've already decided nothing will work for you, therefore someone else has to save you.

The point is, no one else can. Only you can.
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#446

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 09, 2020 2:15 pm

Well said, quietvoice.

I'm starting to think desperate788 should be banned from posting here. There's nothing but him and the PAWS martyrs here lately, and how would that look to potential new members who could actually benefit from signing up?
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#447

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 2:32 pm

Now you are breaking my heart ..After years of friendship
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#448

Postby desperate788 » Tue Feb 11, 2020 7:13 pm

Today is my birthday. No one celebrated people used to do that. You don't like me anymore?
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#449

Postby desperate788 » Wed Feb 12, 2020 4:26 pm

Was a terrible day at work ruined everything
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