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#510

Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 11:32 am

Someone can't be positive by just wanting to be positive. I want to be positive.
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#511

Postby quietvoice » Wed Mar 11, 2020 12:03 pm

desperate788 wrote:Someone can't be positive by just wanting to be positive. I want to be positive.

-1- You are a victim of your own beliefs. Who, outside of you, is going to change your beliefs?

-2- Let's break down what you just said.

"Someone can't be [X] just by wanting to be [X]"

That is true. Wanting something to be true doesn't make it true.

You must BE [X] to have [X]. Wanting is not enough, you must BE it.

So, BE it. Live it in your Wonderful Imagination, and it will become you. Pay attention to what Neville says in that pdf link.
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#512

Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 12:10 pm

I'm imagining it. Even just imagining what I dream is nice.
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#513

Postby quietvoice » Wed Mar 11, 2020 2:22 pm

quietvoice wrote: Pay attention to what Neville says in that pdf link.

I'm now not sure if that was a Neville writing, or someone who wrote this based upon Neville's work. Either way, it is good.
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#514

Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 2:39 pm

Where did neville come from? Why is that important? Don't want to be negative but I don't think this will work. My mind can't process information despite that I tried to think positively.
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#515

Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 2:59 pm

Imagining doesn't floe naturally I have to force it
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#516

Postby CandyApples » Wed Mar 11, 2020 4:52 pm

Ok so are you going to look for 3 jobs on indeed.com or are you going back on that?

You put forth effort to get up and grab food because your hungry
You put forth effort to get dressed in the morning because you need to work
You put forth effort to turn your computer on and type, because you have your reason

You need to put forth effort into finding your happiness, cant just sit there and say you dont feel like it. Because what will happen is then people on here wont write back because no matter what, it doesnt help. Like the boy who cried wolf as the old story goes. We need to see some form of effort from you. What do you do when your not working?
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#517

Postby quietvoice » Wed Mar 11, 2020 5:06 pm

desperate788 wrote:Don't want to be negative but I don't think this will work. My mind can't process information despite that I tried to think positively.

It is in fact working right now!

Whatever thought you think and believe in, is what you experience.
Period.
Nothing will save you but you.
It starts in your own head.
Someone can provide guidance for you (that has happened how many times here for you?), but it is entirely you that must do it.

CandyApples wrote:Because what will happen is then people on here wont write back because no matter what, it doesnt help.

How many times did I say here that I'm done with this guy. And I still keep doing this, but, oh well.
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#518

Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 5:10 pm

That's bad news for me just worries and negative thinking wander at my mind I don't think forcing positivity won't work
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#519

Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 5:10 pm

Will work
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#520

Postby quietvoice » Wed Mar 11, 2020 6:23 pm

FYI
Everyone faces this issue in their life. It's not just you. I've got my own mental hurdle to overcome in a particular important life situation.
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Postby desperate788 » Wed Mar 11, 2020 7:03 pm

I think my suffering and mental situation is worse than most of the peoples suffering many people hate their jobs but from my observing they don't suffer as much as I do. I live with a brain that doesn't have serotonin you know my relaxation prob and worries people don't have such obstacles
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#522

Postby quietvoice » Wed Mar 11, 2020 10:48 pm

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If you want to poo poo this post, too, I figure you might as well continue to talk to yourself here.
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Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 12, 2020 8:07 am

Thanks for the links. I'm not in the mood to work today too. That makes me even more anxious depressed and pessimist
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#524

Postby desperate788 » Thu Mar 12, 2020 8:33 am

You were to tell me painless suicide methods
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