People don't trust me anymore...

Postby Serendipity54 » Wed Dec 11, 2019 10:09 pm

I don't even know where to start, but basically I have a sort of unhealthy cycle with people: a honeymoon phase in which everything is amazing, I love them with all of me and I somehow make them think I'm the best, then things get too intense and I suddenly become distant and start ignoring/arguing with these people. I've done this with everyone I've been friends with, but no matter what, they all remained my friends...the problem is that they all know how I am like now, they're all hurt from it and are cold towards me, especially when they feel like I'm going through the 'honeymoon phase' for like the 100th time. Nobody trusts me anymore, and it pains me because I don't know how to control this but I miss what I used to have with all these people before I went and f***ed it up. How do I stop this cycle?
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Postby WhoDat1017 » Thu Dec 12, 2019 6:15 am

I've dealt with something similar like this in my life. I'm no expert, but maybe I can give you a different perspective. It could be that you feel things deeply. Maybe you're a passionate person so you experience emotions in an intense way. You're not a miserable person, maybe you're just an intense person. It's the price of feeling. If your intense emotions are hurting your loved ones, try finding activities or hobbies to relieve any built up tension or stress so it doesn't get taken out on them. I'd also suggest looking up articles about Empaths. It could give you a better understanding of why you experience deep emotions. It also helps being around people with good attitudes and good vibes. Especially people who experience deep emotions. Hopefully this can help you in some way.
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Postby ginabi » Fri Dec 13, 2019 6:29 am

That was a nice advice WhoDat1017!
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