I'm fed up with life

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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 2:21 pm

desperate788 wrote:It's a matter of decades I can't change.

No such thing as time. Time is a mental construct. All is now. It's never not now.
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 2:36 pm

desperate788 wrote:My father and sister made that


Your father is dead, sir. Whew! One down, one to go.

they cant stand me enjoying life


In that case they have nothing to worry about. You've admitted you enjoy suffering.

I wish Saturday never ends


How would that help, an eternal Saturday of sitting on the forum complaining about your endless woes?

The point I have to suffer at work when I don't enjoy anything


So let's solve two problems at once. Quit your job, enjoy the suffering that follows, and die on the streets. I honestly don't know what's stopping you.

I'm dependant on my comfort.


You and the rest of the world... except that two thirds of the world doesn't have the comfort you have. Too bad for them, huh?

Worried anxious mood prevents me to do anything I can't travel can't even drive car


Do you not see that as complaint? You're complaining again!

I will not complain anymore


Rubbish. It's your favourite thing to do.

I can't change.


So why keep asking forum members, in half a dozen posts a day, to help you?

There's no hope for you. None whatsoever. You are utterly selfish.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 2:44 pm

I can't change but I want to. I want to enjoy life it's short when I die I will say all my life was suffering I don't want that. I subconsciously enjoy suffering that's obvious I want to stop that.
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 2:51 pm

desperate788 wrote:I can't change but I want to.


So get offline and think about it: what kinds of changes you want. Make lists of things you want to do, things you want to be, and things you want to have. Get started on it now, working out how you can get to some of those things.

I want to enjoy life it's short


Say it out loud, "I enjoy life". There's no reason why you shouldn't be enjoying it right now.

when I die I will say all my life was suffering


When you die you'll say nothing. You'll be dead. Isn't that great? Something to look forward to?

I want to stop that.


So stop it, right now. No one here can do that for you. And keep your promise not to complain, here or anywhere else.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:02 pm

Yes sometimes think death is great those cursed like feelings worries anxiety sometimes think death would be nice want it to happen as soon as possible sometimes some false hope emerges and I don't want to die. Things I want aren't so much as I wrote before. Travel world enjoy sexuality and music those are the basics
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:07 pm

desperate788 wrote:Travel world enjoy sexuality and music those are the basics


Not for a lot of people. You're a lucky guy.

FYI, food and shelter are the basics -- and plenty of people don't have those.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:15 pm

Yes sleeping at bed in a warm house and having food on table are the real basics. I should be thankful.
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:16 pm

My world is taking care of me.

Everything is going according to plan.

Things are working out beautifully and will continue to do so with ease
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:18 pm

I hope everything will be fine.
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:33 pm

desperate788 wrote:I should be thankful.


So why aren't you?
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Postby Candid » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:35 pm

Cancel that. We don't need another litany of what's wrong with you and your life.
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 3:46 pm

New book reading and commentary.

I haven't listened to this audio(video) yet, but I've read the book some years ago.

"Think feelingly only of the state you desire to realize. Feeling the reality of the state sought and living and acting on that conviction is the way of all seeming miracles. All changes of expression are brought about through a change of feeling. A change of feeling is a change of destiny."
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 4:00 pm

I don't believe in miracles. They don't happen.
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Postby quietvoice » Sat Jan 18, 2020 4:14 pm

desperate788 wrote:I don't believe in miracles. They don't happen.

Exactly what you'll experience, then.

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The previous text says "seeming" miracles, by the way.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Jan 18, 2020 4:22 pm

I have listened for a while couldn't understand much.
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