chamomile tea

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 07, 2020 11:20 am

I was advised to drink chamomile tea earlier at this board but that was forgotten I just drank one and felt good
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49


#1

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 11:12 am

No tea can save me. I'm a pessimist negative disgusting person who is in deep trouble at work.
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#2

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 12:20 pm

I appeal for help countless times all I get is silence which is deadly..
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#3

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 09, 2020 2:09 pm

That's a totally wrong, unfair, spoiled-brat response.

Richard, quietvoice, I and others have collectively offered hours and hours of care, concern and suggestions to you -- none of which you bother to implement. You just go on moaning here several times a day that your life is so much worse than everybody else's, that you "can't" do any of the things suggested, and that no one here is helping you. Asked what we could possibly do to help you, you don't know. Nothing will ever be enough for you.

As has been said to you many times over the years, no one you 'meet' online can do anything at all for you. We can only make suggestions.

Recently quietvoice posted a video for you, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEThvdh ... tu.be&t=51 ... and what did you say?

I can't understand how that will cure my anxiety


Read a page or two of your posts here, search.php?author_id=31376&sr=posts. Aren't you ashamed, sapping the life out of everyone around you and having no thought at all for anyone but your miserable self?

You're a churlish, ungrateful, insulting and foolish bag of petty woes, and I'm about to block your posts again.
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 8597
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, UK #MeToo
Likes Received: 377

#4

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 2:58 pm

I'm indeed a disgusting person but that's not my fault if I could grow without outside influence I wouldn't be so.
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#5

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:03 pm

desperate788 wrote:I will not complain anymore.
User avatar
Candid
MVP
MVP
 
Posts: 8597
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2010 10:00 am
Location: Reading, UK #MeToo
Likes Received: 377

#6

Postby quietvoice » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:08 pm

desperate788 wrote: that's not my fault


desperate788 wrote: if [only] [I could grow without outside influence I wouldn't be so.]


Only an individual who refuses to take responsibility for their own life speaks like this.
User avatar
quietvoice
Senior Member
 
Posts: 2278
Joined: Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:14 pm
Likes Received: 234

#7

Postby quietvoice » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:10 pm

quietvoice wrote:
Only an individual who refuses to take responsibility for their own life speaks like this.




desperate788, state here in your next post that you refuse to take responsibility for yourself.

At least, take responsibility that you refuse to take responsibility.
User avatar
quietvoice
Senior Member
 
Posts: 2278
Joined: Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:14 pm
Likes Received: 234

#8

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:12 pm

I refuse to take responsibility for my self..I'm a lost freak who still struggling meaningless ly at work
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#9

Postby quietvoice » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:19 pm

desperate788 wrote:I refuse to take responsibility for my self..

Thank you.

Now, what is your complaint again? That no one helps you? That you are ignored by most here?

Your next step is to take responsibility. Until then, you'll continue in your wallow pit. That's why people ignore you; it is because you refuse responsibility.

Now, your next step for "getting better" is to actually take responsibility. That is totally something only you can do—absolutely no one else can do this for you.
User avatar
quietvoice
Senior Member
 
Posts: 2278
Joined: Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:14 pm
Likes Received: 234

#10

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:20 pm

I don't want to bore anyone with my endless complaints as I don't want to be banned and lose my only friends but the simple truth is I'm a lost freak. Maybe we should accept that.
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#11

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:22 pm

quietvoice wrote:
desperate788 wrote:I refuse to take responsibility for my self..

Thank you.

Now, what is your complaint again? That no one helps you? That you are ignored by most here?

Your next step is to take responsibility. Until then, you'll continue in your wallow pit. That's why people ignore you; it is because you refuse responsibility.

Now, your next step for "getting better" is to actually take responsibility. That is totally something only you can do—absolutely no one else can do this for you.

Ì don't understand what you mean by taking responsibility. They push lot of it at work.
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#12

Postby quietvoice » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:22 pm

desperate788 wrote:Maybe we should accept that.

Who is "we"?
User avatar
quietvoice
Senior Member
 
Posts: 2278
Joined: Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:14 pm
Likes Received: 234

#13

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:23 pm

Me and people at board
User avatar
desperate788
Super Member
 
Posts: 40045
Joined: Tue May 13, 2008 3:39 pm
Likes Received: 49

#14

Postby quietvoice » Sun Feb 09, 2020 3:26 pm

desperate788 wrote:I refuse to take responsibility for my self..


desperate788 wrote:Ì don't understand what you mean by taking responsibility.


So, you simply parroted my words, is that right?
User avatar
quietvoice
Senior Member
 
Posts: 2278
Joined: Tue Mar 18, 2014 8:14 pm
Likes Received: 234


Next

Return to Light Lounge

cron