Learning to love again

Postby nullvoid » Sat Feb 08, 2020 1:11 pm

To start off, I would like to say that I had only had 3 or 4 relationships. Many who I only had for a week or two, but there was one that I had been with for about half a year, which was the longest relationship I had but it was also an abusive one. Times she would publicly reticule me, hit me, and sometimes both. Honestly I don't even know why I tried to keep it for that long. During the time that we broke up, I posted some sexist things on facebook, and now my friends and family view me as a sexist pig, and they often dismiss my issue. I do not talk about my issues, and it's been about 2015 since I been closing people out of my personal issues. I bottled this up until it exploded and I ended up hurting someone that was close to me. I want to get better and to be able to talk to people, and would like to love again, but I view people as ingenuous, who would only laugh at my issues and who only want me to suffer. To be honest, I don't even think that I would trust you, but I'm simply putting this up here because I'm desperate right now and I feel like I need some way to get this out here.
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Postby Candid » Sun Feb 09, 2020 12:45 pm

You can post whatever you like about your "issues" here, and will probably get replies from other people going through similar stuff.

Bad relationship choices, poor decision-making on your facebook page, bottling up then exploding, and feeling a lack of trust in the people around you, are all very common. There's probably no one over the age of seven who hasn't experienced one or more of them.

I hope you'll continue posting here. For now, it's a good idea to look at the things you can control and the things you can't. You can do what you like, obviously, but you can't control how people will react to it. There'll come a time when you realise the responses of other people have either let you know when you're going wrong, so you can modify your behaviour; or have made you feel more certainty that you're right, and will carry on no matter what anyone else says.
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Postby claudialaver » Tue Feb 11, 2020 6:42 am

Bad relationships are the toughest phase of life. In this bad phase, you will feel depressed, stress and anxious. The best thing you can do is to get out of this bad relationship.
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