Child sexual experimentation

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Postby Candid » Thu Apr 23, 2020 2:32 pm

So is it okay or isn't it? Are you guilty or not?

You've just demonstrated that no matter what answer you get here, you're going to go on entertaining these weird fantasies.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Thu Apr 23, 2020 2:36 pm

No it’s not a fantasy, it never has been I just want to understand and get an opinion on why you think this? Because I was 8 years old max and I didn’t know what I was doing, I don’t fantasise about any of this. I haven’t done anything like this past 13 years old, I’m ashamed and feel disgusted and I would never ever do anything of the sort now.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Thu Apr 23, 2020 2:47 pm

I don’t fantasise at all about any of this I just get anxious about wether or not I’ve done something wrong. That’s part of my OCD, but that time I have recently mentioned felt different to the other time and is why I’m reaching out again, but I just wanted to know how I’ve done something wrong compared to the other ones? I wanted to hear it from somebody else that doesn’t have OCD like me.
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Postby Candid » Thu Apr 23, 2020 2:53 pm

So you were young, and you're Not Well, and you didn't know what you were doing, so you're innocent.

Remind me, what was the purpose of this thread and your other ones?
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Postby Anonymous02 » Thu Apr 23, 2020 2:57 pm

The purpose was to get validation from others, why did you jump to say I was doing something wrong if I had stated I was 8 years old, the previous posts where before I knew I had ocd so I thought I was a bad person when really It was me over thinking things and I was going through puberty and confused, I never meant to hurt anyone so that’s why I’m asking for help and validation because the biggest part of my ocd is worrying if I’m a bad person and if I’ve done stuff wrong.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Thu Apr 23, 2020 3:00 pm

I did state I was about 7 or 8 years old? I just get extremely anxious about being a bad person, so that’s why I’m seeking advice, not to be a nuisance or trolling it’s just a huge worry off mine, did I commit a crime when I was 8 years old?
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Postby Candid » Thu Apr 23, 2020 3:36 pm

Anonymous02 wrote:The purpose was to get validation


Ah, you wanted to hook up with other paedophiles. Well, this is not a paedophile forum.

why did you jump to say I was doing something wrong


Because kiddy-fiddling is wrong, and that's what you're saying you did, and because you asked.

I was 8 years old ... It was me over thinking things ... I was going through puberty and confused ... I never meant to hurt anyone


Do you want opinions or to justify yourself or just to troll us with your fantasies?

the biggest part of my ocd is worrying if I’m a bad person and if I’ve done stuff wrong.


I say you are and you did. That's my final word.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Thu Apr 23, 2020 3:39 pm

No no I would never do anything of the sort now, I was 8, I was a child myself which is why I’m confused.
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Postby Baventhiran » Tue Jun 02, 2020 6:49 am

@Candid: Looking from Anonymous02's perspective, I really feel sorry for her. When feelings overpower they can be hard to control, I am sure you know that. Plus, she shared her experience, I believe that takes guts.
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Anonymous02, everyone's a pervert, whether we'll admit or not. As for what you did, since you know its wrong then you will have to work towards controlling the emotion.

From what I understand, what you were doing is to get your feelings out instead of containing them inside you. If you ask me, that's very normal. When we're hungry, we eat to let the hunger leave. When we feel tired, we rest.

It's up to you to make the move if you want to get over it. If you give up, it's your fault. If you successfully control, it's your success. I wish you the best :)
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Postby Baventhiran » Tue Jun 02, 2020 7:32 am

Sorry, I am not allowed to send private message here yet because of this:
Sorry! To protect our members from unwanted messages, we do not allow new users to send messages until they have contributed to the forum for a while. Please post a few times first.


The "everybody's a pervert" part I meant was everyone has sexual desire, only that many don't talk about their's openly.

I did research on this kind of incident once before and was surprised (at that time) that there are many out there like that. I want to share a link to show you an example of what I meant but I got this in return:
Your post looks too spamy for a new user, please remove off-site URLs.


I tried this way and it seems to work. Okay, go here (change the [dot] to .) and read through: quora[dot]com/I-touched-my-sister-when-we-were-younger-and-she-was-sleeping-I-ve-never-done-it-again-what-should-I-do

See, we're all different. Also, I am sure that there are many who have done similar to what you have out there, so don't worry you're not the only one. Hopefully, that helped reassure you.
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Postby Anonymous02 » Tue Jun 02, 2020 8:07 am

Thank you so much, I obviously don’t have any thoughts off doing stuff like that again and I don’t look at any child in that sort of way. And I haven’t done anything of the sort since around the age of 13. And that was the only incident that I feel was really bad. But again thank you so much. I’m just trying to move on with my life.
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Postby Baventhiran » Tue Jun 02, 2020 8:28 am

You're welcome. Please, take care!
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Postby Candid » Wed Jun 03, 2020 7:24 am

Baventhiran wrote:@Candid: Looking from Anonymous02's perspective, I really feel sorry for her. When feelings overpower they can be hard to control, I am sure you know that. Plus, she shared her experience, I believe that takes guts.


If you click on Anonymous02's name you'll be able to look at his or her posts going back more than two years. He or she has "shared" a number of experiences. Richard's already drawn attention to the fact that the ages, gender, stories and victim's relationship to Anonymous02 keep changing. We get these wackos every so often, with similar tales. They are trolls. If you reassure them they go on and on about how guilty they feel; if you tell them they did wrong, they protest.

Have a go. The thread will run as long as you or someone else shows an interest.
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Postby Baventhiran » Wed Jun 03, 2020 7:54 am

Alright, noted. Thanks for the notification, Candid.
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Postby Tom.uk » Wed Jun 03, 2020 8:05 pm

Sexual abuse of another person is wrong weather you are a young boy or an adult being the perpetraitor .
You were aged 8 which is the age of awareness you did know it was wrong
Shame on you you do need expert help
I suggest you go to the nearest police station and let them decide .
Not sure wether you are a male or a female but that is abuse
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