Despair

[Sindy20]

I am so lonely that I despair. I have been through a lot on my life. Had open heart surgery as a child. Body image issues mainly with breast's. My bf committed suicide 11 years ago. Then I got alopecia and I have become addicted to psychics and spent thousands. I have been feeling so lonely lately it's painful. I just want to die. I feel I have noone. Please help.

[Richard@DecisionSkills]

I am so lonely....I feel I have noone. Please help.

Get off the Internet.

Humans are social creatures. Many people that feel lonely use the Internet as a crutch. It allows them to further retreat from society while giving them a false sense of having social connections. The reality is the Internet only results in feeling even more lonely. So coming to the Internet for help is not what you need.

What you need is to establish some social connections in your local community. Find a coffee shop you can go to regularly. Join some clubs. Volunteer. Exercise. Go to church. Find a hobby.