Anger management for youngins

Postby shotzonshotz3 » Mon Aug 03, 2020 7:57 am

How do you control anger among siblings?
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Postby Candid » Mon Aug 03, 2020 8:32 am

Is it your siblings we're talking about, shotz?
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Postby Leo Volont » Mon Aug 03, 2020 9:09 pm

Hi Shotzonshotz,

When sibling children are getting troublesomely contentious, then step in as a calm and steady but seasoned Magistrate and offer to mediate between them fairly, though holding binding arbitration like a card up your sleeve. Show them the way the World is supposed to work. Also, when they are loud and aggressive you can remind them of how their Schools and Employers will assess such behaviors 15 or 20 years hence. You can begin them in the Wisdom of Cognitive Behavior Theory by telling them that they can be anybody they want to be, or at least act like it. they must watch themselves and fine tune their behaviors according to how they are received by their family, fellows and peers. If behaviors turn out badly for them, they must try to figure out a different and better way to react to the same situations. Almost absolutely always reacting with loud voice, cursing when they grow up, and aggression is definitely perhaps the worst way to react. Hold yourself up as an example and tell them that while some fathers would be yelling and screaming at them and threatening corporal punishment, you yourself are behaving with disciplined calm and a mind resolved on rational problem solving solutions.
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Postby bawdyheated » Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:19 am

shotzonshotz3 wrote:How do you control anger among siblings?

Control, stay away from the scene to cool down.
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