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#195

Postby Candid » Thu Feb 18, 2021 10:06 am

desperate788 wrote:All i want is sleeping in tranquility without worries. I have to resign for that.

No you don't. You can start looking forward to your death.
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#196

Postby desperate788 » Thu Feb 18, 2021 10:46 am

I would like to enjoy life if i havent had such a job
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#197

Postby desperate788 » Thu Feb 18, 2021 1:18 pm

Now the dilemma about going to work tomorrow
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#198

Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 19, 2021 2:38 am

I was fired in my Dreams it felt so bad.
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#199

Postby Candid » Fri Feb 19, 2021 8:46 am

Pathetic.

There are people all over the world struggling with their jobs but carrying on. Some leave or get fired, and of those some are going to struggle financially or even become homeless. Perhaps they're all complaining somewhere else on line, but I don't see them here. Just you, endlessly complaining about every little detail of your life but never taking action.

I think you're a grown man who can't be away from his mother. There's nothing wrong with that, and I've suggested MANY times that you quit your job and move back into her house, but you don't want to do that, either.

You'll have to go back to mother or find ways of coping at work that DON'T involve asking strangers what to do. Those are your choices.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 19, 2021 9:20 am

Indeed pathetic. I have such a serious anxiety disease and life is very hard for me because of that. I asked your opinion to ease the anxiety.
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#201

Postby Candid » Fri Feb 19, 2021 6:02 pm

My opinion is that you have two choices.
1 Carry on in your job, just get on with it
2 Leave your job and live with your mother

A third possibility is getting a different job, but I think that's too much to expect of you.

Toss a coin if you have to. Heads the job, tails mother's house.
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Feb 19, 2021 6:35 pm

I would like to live with my mother but then without a job and power I would have to see my sister who disgusts me. I like money best option is working at this job till I find an other way to earn money if I ever could
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#203

Postby Candid » Sat Feb 20, 2021 8:19 am

Good. Decision made. You're staying in the job.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Feb 20, 2021 6:18 pm

There are times when i like my job being productive anyways but when those worries rise when tension rise i came to the point hating it.
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#205

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 21, 2021 8:16 am

That makes it difficult to stick to your decision.
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#206

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 21, 2021 2:15 pm

Yes i need some joy action and productivity in my life having a job is good for that but damn worries related to work..
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#207

Postby Candid » Sun Feb 21, 2021 4:24 pm

Yes, that's how it is.
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#208

Postby desperate788 » Sun Feb 21, 2021 5:32 pm

So bored from staying idle
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#209

Postby Candid » Tue Feb 23, 2021 7:53 am

Do you do crossword puzzles?
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