My dentist...

Postby Nicky555 » Fri Dec 25, 2020 12:44 am

My dentist is attracted to me (?)

When we first met I felt immediately we are sympathetic to each other. First I was not attracted to him, I was too embarassed then to even think about it...but later, because of what happened at our first procedure and at the second one too, I started to believe that he likes me and even attracted to me sexually!
He's a very good dentist, precise, empathic and very kind. And...he's very sexy. Which I just realized later.

At the first procedure he put his dental tools on my chest/very near to my breasts. As it was a longer treatment first I thought it's a routine thing in such cases and maybe it's easier for him to reach his tools. And it's possibly true still I felt somehow weird...
Then we had to take an X-ray and he helped to put that lead apron on me. When he put it on me he touched the apron around my breasts and also he gently pushed it down around my crotch. But maybe it's normal too.
Then the following treatment was long weeks later. He asked me if I had any problems after the first procedure and I told him I was okay but my right cheek was swelled for few days. He was sitting on his chair in front of me then suddenly leant towards me and softly touched my right cheek with his two fingers and asked me sweetly: "Here?" - it was so sudden and he didn't seemed to be that kind of person who would do that...
In that moment I started to feel something. I started to feel his vibe strongly... It was a trigger to me. Then we started the second treatment. He put his tools on my chest/breasts again...

Then came our third "date". Then I wore a sexier pullover which exposed my breasts a little. And as I waited he stared at me, several times. He was doing it innocently first but his last stare was longer and after it he looked at me into my eyes as we were talking. He also checked my whole body and I felt like his gentle large brown eyes became somewhat hungry...
(I have to mention that he's not that typical masculine "alpha male" type - which I don't really like by the way - but he's rather a gentle, kinda "feminine" type guy yet hot and sexy.)
By that time I felt we have the mutual attraction and felt the sexual tension between us. First I believed I am only kinda erotomaniac, lol, and I was just projecting my desires onto him but now it seems it's not only me...or I would like to believe it's not only me fantasizing. Actually he showed many signs of the attraction with his body language, his gaze, his eyebrows, as he smiles at me, his feet usually points towards me even if he's standing in front of the table and monitor, and once he was leaning towards me as he was jokingly said something...
This attraction started to grow more and more as I was going there again and again.

But the most interesting, or rather "shocking" thing was happened not long ago. You all know that after longer treatments, like root canal etc, dentists would go to the toilet before the new patient comes in. It's totally normal. It already happened to him too before we would start it. But... last time he didn't go out before I would come in. I came in, we started to talk and he started to check my teeth as usual. I was lying in the dental chair and he asked for the injection from the assistant. The assistant was a bit slow and he left his dental mirror (and I think one of his finger) in my mouth as we were waiting for long long seconds. My eyes were only slightly closed, I could saw him as he was looking at the assistant during waiting but suddenly he turned his face down and looked at me, he looked at my breasts, I also "felt" his eyes on me...(I wore a bit sexier pullover again he even could see a little part of my bra between the buttons...) then...he started to breathe heavily and loudly under his mask, it was the sexiest breathe ever but also was somewhat scary a bit. I couldn't help but thought he became kinda excited sexually. I felt it. Then he gave me the shot and after it he went out to the toilet and came back 3 or 4 minutes later. During that time I was talking with the assistant. Then he came back and he immediately started the procedure. He leant very close to me, actually he was above me from behind as he was working on my teeth. 1 or 2 minutes later as he was working on me, his naked arms touched my face several times and then...A VERY FAMILIAR SCENT HIT MY NOSE! It came from his whole arms and probably from his hands too but he wore gloves of course...I bet you already know what I mean! It was so strong but so appealing, I totally turned on and just sniffed his sexy smell like an addicted bitch. Did I just hallucinate? Or projected? It can't be. I didn't feel that smell before he went out...
So this means...it's possible? He was secretly masturbating on the toilet after he was breathing heavily above me? And maybe he even smeared his semen on his arms for me to smell it, to feel him?
It just came into my mind maybe it was not the first case because once when he went to toilet he looked at me and said : "I am coming soon..." then smiled...even the way he was looking at me was weird af...still so sexy!

I tried to avoid it first and tried to pretend there is nothing but I can't help. There is something obviously...
I'm attracted. Madly. And I like him very much.

I forgot to mention that it seems he cares about me even more than about other patients...last time the other dentist there smiled and said to me: "Well you are in very good hands by him, you know that, right?"

What do you think?

(and sorry for my not perfect English)
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Postby tokeless » Fri Dec 25, 2020 1:38 pm

I'm in two minds here. Either he's being unprofessional and inappropriate with you, his patient or you're seeing something you want to see and you are pushing the boundaries that could get out of hand.
Either way I don't think anything positive will come from this chase. You will either get rejected and hurt or he will take advantage of your obvious advances and you end up hurt and him struck off..... or he will realise what you are doing and ask for another dentist to treat you, hence you will get rejected and hurt. Why are you chasing someone who may be out of bounds?
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Postby Nicky555 » Fri Dec 25, 2020 4:35 pm

It's not a sin if we are attracted to each other. He's a dentist yes and maybe this behaviour is considered "unprofessional and inappropriate" but he is also a human being. Some boundaries can be necessary, I see but if two people like or even love each other, then there should not be any boundaries between them. I have seen and heard of many nice relationships and even happy marriages between doctor and patient.

Anyways I do not think he would have bad intentions, I am thinking about what happened again and again, it really seems he's attracted to me and interested.
I am not "chasing" him actually, even if I am triggered and like him very much I will not force anything, of course. I will wait and see. If he really wants me I will not reject him for sure, I really want to know him more...

Thanks for your reply btw, I can accept if other people have different views about these things.
Happy holidays!
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Postby tokeless » Fri Dec 25, 2020 6:39 pm

It seems you don't want opinions that clash with your own fantasy. Boundaries are essential between professional and patient to stop exploitation and abuse. You seem to be leading this rather than he so I would advise you stop now, change dentists and if, as you feel he is attracted to you other than your flaunting yourself with lower cut tops etc, he would contact you and state his feelings because you would no longer be his patient. I suspect he's a fantasy and you have become a bit fixated on him and what you hope could be.... as I said it's my opinion and you asked what people think.. I think you're making a big mistake but it's yours to make.
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Postby Nicky555 » Fri Dec 25, 2020 9:49 pm

Ok I think I was misunderstood a bit here. I should have written my post more precisely.

Well, sorry but I am not really curious about other people's judgemental opinions and also I do not need any lecturing or "good advice" at all.
When I asked "what do you think?" at the end of my post I just wanted to know what is the opinion of other people regarding HIS ATTRACTION TOWARDS ME, based on what I was telling here about it.
So I did not ask other people's opinions about the "moral" part of this, I did not write here to get myself judged here.
Of course anyone has the right to tell his/her own thoughts freely, by the way...I just do not care about that.
I only care about what I was curious: is there anyone else who thinks that this man is attracted to me, based on my story. That's all.

I think such people who want to judge others or just want to lecture someone, should go and find such posts where these things were directly asked/required.
For example: "What do you think? Is it right to start a relationship with my dentist? Please tell your opinions about it!"

I also believed first, maybe it is only my fantasy, but it seems it's not.
He sent a text message by the way, in the evening, whishing me merry christmas and asking me if I am okay now, after the last treatment... I was surprised a bit because he has never texted to me so far!

You wrote: "Boundaries are essential between professional and patient to stop exploitation and abuse."
I can agree. This can protect the patients and the doctors too, on a level at least.
But here in my case there is no exploitation and abuse at all.. And there was no exploitation between those patients and doctors who married later...
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Postby tokeless » Fri Dec 25, 2020 10:00 pm

Wow... did I touch a nerve (no pun intended). I guess if you don't want a haircut don't sit in a barber's chair. You are sounding more odd with every post. I would run for the hills if I was that dentist.... enjoy your ride.
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Postby Nicky555 » Fri Dec 25, 2020 11:46 pm

tokeless wrote:Wow... did I touch a nerve (no pun intended). I guess if you don't want a haircut don't sit in a barber's chair. You are sounding more odd with every post. I would run for the hills if I was that dentist.... enjoy your ride.


Lol, no, I don't think so. I just tried to explain myself better. And I only expressed what I dislike...
No, I wanted a haircut, a haircut ONLY, but the barber almost cut my throat...

For me you and other similar deluded moralists sound odd who believe they are right and are able to judge correctly a person or a situation which they do not even know well.

You would run for the hills if you were that dentist...lol, fortunately you are not him. But it's so stupid, you do not even know me...
You just started to make ASSUMPTIONS based on some stupid beliefs you have.

That's the problem with most people, they are blindly judging others and making stupid assumptions without knowing or asking anything. They don't even bother themselves to read and understand fully what the other person tried to say... if they see something which they find "weird" or "opposing" to their standards or beliefs they just immediately attack without deeper understanding.
Just like the radical christian moralists for example...

Whatever...
Yes, thanks, I will enjoy my ride for sure. :)
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