Depression after marriage

Postby sarasara » Fri Jan 29, 2021 11:50 am

Why Have I feeling depression after marriage? is it normal? :roll: :shock:
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Fri Jan 29, 2021 4:40 pm

Very normal.

As a relationship ends with a person we love(d) it is very normal to go through various stages of grief, including a state of depression.

https://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#order

https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-5-stag ... f#2.-Anger

Note: While grief is normally associated with death, it can also occur with situations like divorce, retirement from a job, etc.
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Postby sarasara » Sat Jan 30, 2021 10:44 am

I read that article but cant find my answer please help me more...
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Sat Jan 30, 2021 1:53 pm

Apologies, I think I misread the initial post. I thought you meant “after marriage” meaning a divorce or becoming a widow. Coming back to thread I realize you could mean after the wedding. If that is the case, then it might be an indication that you were not ready for marriage.
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Postby rsgracey » Mon Feb 01, 2021 1:40 am

I'm certainly no psychologist, but I do know that looking forward to something for a long time means that when that anticipation is resolved (i.e., the wedding), there is suddenly a gap in the mind where that anticipation was. Change is always stressful, and even if you've been living with someone for years, the WEDDING makes a huge difference in how you feel about life. It represents a fundamental change in your identity: You go from being "single" to being "married." And that is a change in substance (in the Greek sense, like "transubstantiation") that takes a little while to get used to.

When was the wedding? How long have you been depressed?
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Postby Dale_znovic » Tue Feb 09, 2021 6:19 am

actaully no one can say that . you might go to couple theraphy to find out
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Postby sarasara » Thu Feb 18, 2021 11:20 am

I found out separation from my parents causes my depression.
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