I want to die

Postby Lpoxitzitzjtz » Thu Jun 03, 2021 1:13 am

I'm knocking on 40 and I've wasted a lot of my life on someone who was mostly interested in what I could do for them. I've accomplished nothing notable for myself. No career, no wife, no kids, no hope. I'm living a Greek tragedy and other than killing myself I don't see a way out.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Thu Jun 03, 2021 2:43 am

Lpoxitzitzjtz wrote:I'm knocking on 40…. I don't see a way out.


So single, no kids, and only 40?

When I was 40, single, and without kids, I started traveling the world and began working online. It isn’t expensive.

If you have no money and limited skills, consider teaching English in any number of countries.
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Postby Candid » Sat Jun 05, 2021 7:23 am

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:When I was 40, single, and without kids, I started traveling the world...

Oh snap, except that I was 41.

If you have no money and limited skills, consider teaching English in any number of countries.

Travel isn't that easy while the coronahoax rages.

Lpoxitzitzjtz, there's no rule says you need to accomplish anything at all. Having wasted time is certainly no reason to kill yourself!

I have plenty of regrets, too. The thing is to learn from them and find out what makes you happy. Happy people are kinder to themselves as well as to others.
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Postby KatherineKing » Mon Jun 07, 2021 2:42 pm

Oh my God, you have your whole life ahead of you and you chose to kill yourself, really??? Don't be so weak, go to any number of psychotherapy sessions, go on a trip, be open to new things, get a pet, make new friends, and then find a girlfriend. Don't get discouraged and think how bad it was, how miserable I am. Get up, write a list of things to do and go forward into this wonderful life, it's short, but so interesting! It's okay to have what you are going through...everything can be changed!!! Be persistent and don't despair!!! I believe in you buddy! :!:
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Postby Candid » Wed Jun 09, 2021 8:57 am

KatherineKing wrote:Don't be so weak

Not the best first post I've seen.
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Postby greenaffiliates » Mon Oct 04, 2021 6:18 am

Life begins at 40! You can have a fresh start if you wanted to. The world is too big for you to explore and enjoy. Despite the pandemic we are in now, there are still more ways to live the life we wanted.
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Postby Sdotenvy1 » Fri Nov 12, 2021 5:12 pm

If you start now, you can still create notable acclaim for yourself. You just have to write down what that looks like for you and make a check list to do it. Even if you take breaks you can pick it back up again!
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Postby beaverseed » Thu Nov 18, 2021 2:58 am

Ask an expert that can help you. There's more to life than what you're feeling now.
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Postby mariaporter121 » Thu Nov 18, 2021 9:54 am

Hire a health consultant and share your thoughts.
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Postby applelily2x » Sun Dec 12, 2021 12:46 pm

Lpoxitzitzjtz wrote:I'm knocking on 40 and I've wasted a lot of my life on someone who was mostly interested in what I could do for them. I've accomplished nothing notable for myself. No career, no wife, no kids, no hope. I'm living a Greek tragedy and other than killing myself I don't see a way out.


Hello,

Killing yourself is not a option, sounds like you're lonely, am I correct? nothing bad, just seems like you may be experiencing those symptoms. have you got in touch with a therapist or a doctor to discuss your suicide thoughts? are you safe? help is available for everyone who may need it whatever their issue,

hope your doing better
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Postby Thomas » Mon Dec 13, 2021 10:21 pm

Get in line!
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Postby Jamicah-Walmer » Tue Dec 14, 2021 9:19 pm

I think you should talk to a reliable source such as Richard
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