Trouble at work

Postby desperate788 » Fri Jul 30, 2021 12:58 pm

dealing with mental problems and because of anxiety and lethargy i missed a deadline for one or more works. Now worried about consequences.
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Postby romanrusso » Sun Aug 01, 2021 10:10 am

What I don't understand is how with over 40k posts you are still having these questions and problems. Don't get me wrong, it is genuine confusion. Are you a psychologist by profession / education or just a well-intended contributor?
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Postby romanrusso » Sun Aug 01, 2021 10:15 am

As for your question, I saw you made many posts for it in the forum (hence maybe the 40k posts) on a similar issue. I guess, whats done is done. Now you have to deal with the consequences and make amends if necessary. Make a plan and execute it. If you need to work overnight to resolve your problems then do that. Worrying about your problems which were caused by worry in the first place is a vicious cycle that can only be resolved by work. In turn, negative emotions overall will drain you of mental energy hence it is best to avoid them like the plague.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Aug 01, 2021 10:19 am

its possible there may be serious problem. I want go deeper to the problem monday but im anxious even to open my computer. Actually thats why i missed the deadline. The penaltı may be payını the states loss or simething else. I have heard many cases resulted in penalty at such cases.
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Postby romanrusso » Sun Aug 01, 2021 10:45 am

Just wait and see, I'd say. If you can already do something about it then do it. Also, I sent you a private message :)
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Aug 01, 2021 10:57 am

Thanks.. deadline already passed there is nothing to do. Regard my current mental situation its doubtful i could do something if it hasnt passed all i can do now is waiting consequences as you said.
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Postby desperate788 » Sun Aug 01, 2021 2:42 pm

It will be very unfortunate if state wants my savings
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Postby Candid » Mon Aug 02, 2021 11:57 am

OptimalHappiness wrote:What I don't understand is how with over 40k posts you are still having these questions and problems. Don't get me wrong, it is genuine confusion. Are you a psychologist by profession / education or just a well-intended contributor?

Well-intended contributor?

Stick around and you'll soon see desperate788 barely acknowledges anyone else here. He gets a kick out of complaining about every little detail of his life, and although he solicits advice a dozen times a day he has no intention of acting on any of it.
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Postby azariy » Mon Aug 02, 2021 4:57 pm

desperate788 wrote:dealing with mental problems and because of anxiety and lethargy i missed a deadline for one or more works. Now worried about consequences.


My main principle is "don't worry, be happy"
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Aug 02, 2021 5:00 pm

Yep its nice.
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Postby desperate788 » Mon Aug 02, 2021 5:32 pm

Its obvious that worrying doesnt solve problems
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Postby desperate788 » Fri Aug 13, 2021 9:55 am

I saw manager out. Any prob?
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Postby Candid » Sat Aug 14, 2021 8:52 am

LOTS. Really serious ones.

Do you honestly believe people on the forum know more about your life than you do?
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Aug 14, 2021 9:29 am

yes i believe that, im seriously mentally impaired with poor senses
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Postby Candid » Mon Aug 16, 2021 7:54 pm

How do you expect me in the UK or quietvoice in the US to know what goes on in your office?
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