Kissing my brother

Postby plemonade » Thu Aug 26, 2021 3:24 pm

When I was 11 and my brother was 4 I "French" kissed brother. I don't remember if he consented and I don't remember my thought process either except that I wanted to see how it was like. It lasted a couple of seconds i think and i think he said stop. I said "a bit more" (i think) then realised quickly after that he was uncomfortable and it felt like nothing. Im scared I abused or assaulted him even though stopped seconds after he said no and I cry every night thinking about it. I had no intention to hurt him but he thought of it keeps replaying and I'm scared i abused or assaulted him. I'm now 15 and i feel so ashamed
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Postby plemonade » Thu Aug 26, 2021 7:25 pm

can anyone tell me if it was abuse and how to get rid of the guilt
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Postby tokeless » Thu Aug 26, 2021 8:08 pm

Considering you think about it every night, you aren't clear about what happened.... sounds like a fetish fantasy to me.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Aug 30, 2021 2:44 am

Sounds like a jjjames03 creating a second account to me.
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Postby tokeless » Mon Aug 30, 2021 7:08 am

Richard@DecisionSkills wrote:Sounds like a jjjames03 creating a second account to me.


Must have had a birthday too...
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Postby bawdyheated » Mon Aug 30, 2021 9:38 am

That sounds sus to me. If that is so, find help.
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Mon Aug 30, 2021 11:19 am

jjjames03 wrote:Richard do you have nothing else to do?


What about you james? Instead of creating multiple accounts and trolling for responses to satisfy whatever fetish you’re dealing with, why not go do something else?
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Postby Richard@DecisionSkills » Tue Aug 31, 2021 1:17 am

jjjames03 wrote:…you have plenty of time on your hands that you can be doing anything else.


As do you, apparently.
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Postby Candid » Tue Aug 31, 2021 7:35 am

jjjames03 wrote:I mean I said because you’ve been on here since 2012. And telling that your a grown man you have plenty of time on your hands that you can be doing anything else. And if I had any backup account name them.. Tell me the usernames. And your really arguing with a 14 year old.

I suppose you can't attend school right now, but doing your homework, with particular attention to English grammar, would be a better use of your time than posting here.
Do your parents have any good fiction around the house? Reading a book would be the best use of your time if you have no set homework.
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Postby HarryLeo » Mon Dec 06, 2021 10:17 am

ohhh too weird
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