What are you listening to right now?

#5730

Postby Candid » Sat Nov 10, 2018 1:43 pm

There probably aren't as many around as there were before. We need to look after our reptiles, especially tortoises.

https://www.durrell.org/wildlife/plough ... ncy-appeal
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Postby Candid » Sat Nov 10, 2018 1:44 pm

... but you don't have ploughshare tortoises in Turkey, you have Testudo graeca. My favourite.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 1:49 pm

Don't know specifics.
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Postby Candid » Sat Nov 10, 2018 2:06 pm

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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 2:42 pm

Candid wrote:Here's another one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lp7E973zozc

That was nice.
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Postby Candid » Sat Nov 10, 2018 2:44 pm

Yes. I believe what she says.

So what is it you most want?
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 2:45 pm

It changes from time to time but for now having a beautiful woman
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 2:46 pm

Now it's being free of worries
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Postby Candid » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:10 pm

I say Pah! to your worries. You have an endless stream of them, and none of the things you worry about ever comes to pass.

Best thing is to crowd out the worries with thoughts of the beautiful woman you want. Go out and look at beautiful women, or flip through magazines. Imagine the kind of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. Imagine how she laughs, how she talks, and what you both talk about. Think about laughing at the same things, with no need to talk at all. Enjoy the fantasy. You want one who loves you back, right?

Keep thinking about her, knowing she's out there somewhere, until the day you run into her. You'll know her when you see her.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:14 pm

It's a nice idea to exchange worrying with thoughts of beautiful women. Liked it :)
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:16 pm

If it were to realise I would be with every beauty queen that world has seen.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:18 pm

The problem is I am shy..
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Postby Candid » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:48 pm

Whoa, boy! Not so fast.

Perhaps you'd be happier with someone to talk to instead of someone to look at. From zero romance for years to "every beauty queen the world has seen" is a bit of a stretch, isn't it?

It would be good for you to meet and talk to women without the pressure of how people look, so nightclubs and bars are not good hunting grounds. Not yet. You need practice.

There's nothing wrong with smiling at women (of all ages) in shops, or on the street, where you work, daytime places that don't have the pressure of romantic expectations.

When you see a woman who looks great, march up to her and say so. It's easy. "You look great", smile, walk away. Whenever that happens to me it always makes me feel good. Make someone's day.

Let's start with small steps, no expectations, no pressure, just knowing everyone loves a compliment.

Instead of thinking "I'm shy", tell yourself you're happy and confident and you don't care what the result is, you're going to start telling beautiful women they look great. If they return an insult -- and I believe some women do although I'll never understand why -- it doesn't diminish you in any way. It's about them. You've found out something: she's not as beautiful as you thought she was. Information is always good.

Treat it as a dare if you like. I dare you to give at least three women a week a sincere compliment.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:52 pm

Yeah I'm tired of looking I want to talk. But telling stranger women that they are beautiful is risky. The reaction may be severe. Communicating with beautiful women was a issue for me since teens.
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Postby desperate788 » Sat Nov 10, 2018 3:56 pm

Candid wrote:Here's another one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lp7E973zozc

I'm in the mood for another one..Just took my bath and drinking red fruits tea.
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