I recently got married in a quick and simple City Hall/Courthouse ceremony on February 6th with my then boyfriend, now husband.... Hubby work 2 jobs, everyday he working 12-14 hours shift, so he is tired.... We both didn't have the mind to plan a wedding, and we want to avoid the stress overall.
So we still newlywed; we only into our second month of marriage.... When we were dating, I know my husband is an affectionate guy, and after marriage he still as affectionate as before.... But umm, he kiss my 'butt cheek' everyday. Is this what guys usually do to their wife?
Sexually, I only been with one guy and that is my husband. So sometimes he do the things he do, it make me wonder if other guys out there do it too.
At first I thought hubby only kiss my butt cheek when it naked, but Nope! Even clothed on, like when I have underwear or jeans on, he still kiss my butt cheek. Everytime we in bed together, or he see me lying in bed, he kiss it.... I let him do it, it just kindda make me feel a bit awkward, it feels funny.
He does Not spank my butt, not even light spanking. He not do kinky/freaky stuff to my butt.... Our sex life is "Vanilla", just the traditional sex. None of us are into kinky stuff. He just simply put his lips on my butt cheek and give it a kiss.
I think it become a routine now, he been doing this everyday since we got married.... So the 'butt cheek' kiss is normal right? Good sign in a marriage?
In my childhood, I grew up in a family that rather COLD, there was no showing affection between parents and children. There was no saying ‘I love you’. There was no hugs, no goodnight kisses. No physical display of affection between children, parents, relatives family, etc...
So growing up my whole life not seeing affection. When my hubby kiss my buttock, it make me feel somewhat kindda awkward.... I guess all the affection he washing all over me at once, I’m overwhelmed. I’m just NOT used to it... yet
I was wondering, would you like it if your husband kiss your butt cheek everyday?.... Do you feel funny/awkward if your husband do this?
How would you react if you husband randomly just put his lips on your buttock and kiss it? What is the 'correct' way to response back to him?.... I mean if this is what he likes to do so he can feel love by his wife, then I guess keep let him do it until he get bored right?
Any inputs/advice, or help answer the questions in italic is appreciate. Thank you.
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Our marriage seem fine so far. He still the same guy that I know before, nothing about him change.
Oh, and every single day after he came home from work; doesn’t matter how late it is, he would give me a long kiss everytime he walk in the door.... I don’t know if he gonna get bored from doing this in the future, but so far I get this everyday since we got married... AND the butt cheek kiss is everyday too when we in bed.