I've noticed that I've been attracted to a small handful of much older people and now view select older women as attractive rather than as just another person. I'm comfortable in my sexuality as pansexual; therefore am not confused about the gender of the people I'm attracted to, but I don't understand the psychology behind this, predominantly sexual, attraction to people in their 40's.
* Is this just a student/teacher fantasy?
* Is it wrong to pursue sex if you know you don't want a long-term relationship?
* Also, If you're +/- 40, would you find it creepy/uncomfortable for a much younger person to be attracted to you?
* I've read about attraction to older men but is it different for older women? (the emotional maturity, stability etc...?)
Any (respectful) input would be great
