frustrated :(

Postby kavya shrivastava » Tue Feb 09, 2016 7:45 am

hello
i hope every one is keeping good... ... but not me!
since three years i have been experiencing this.. .. constant fights at my home.. .. my brother is quite aggressive and he as such doesn't 'like' my father... ... their fights are going o more serious day by day... ... i need to concentrate on my studies but unfortunately i couldn't.. ... there passes no day when i don't cry.. .. i just can't handle this.. .. sometimes i feel like killing him or killing myself and even sometimes curse God for giving such a life to me .. .. please tell me what to do!! :(
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Postby PalmaNova » Tue Feb 09, 2016 12:41 pm

Maybe you should talk with your parents. Maybe your brother needs help. You need your space and you need silence to concentrate and study. Talk with them. You did not tell us what this arguing is about ? How old are you your brother ???
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Postby kavya shrivastava » Tue Feb 09, 2016 2:55 pm

m 16 and he's 18
maybe i should tell things for he doesn't argue instead of those things that he does... ....
things that he actually wants to do neither is common nor is correct for the society in which we live .. ... i don't know why he hates our parents... ...they have done every thing a middle class guardian can do but things are never enough for him... ...
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Postby Tiku » Wed Feb 10, 2016 10:22 am

May be you can share your feelings with you brother, tell him how haird his behavior is for you. He loves you, may be he'll reconsider his behavior..
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Postby PalmaNova » Wed Feb 10, 2016 6:21 pm

kavya shrivastava wrote:m 16 and he's 18
maybe i should tell things for he doesn't argue instead of those things that he does... ....
things that he actually wants to do neither is common nor is correct for the society in which we live .. ... i don't know why he hates our parents... ...they have done every thing a middle class guardian can do but things are never enough for him... ...


Maybe he hangs out with friends which have bad influence on him. Maybe he has some problem and he is not ready to share it with all of you yet .As I said, talk with him, try to find out where the problem is , and always keep his side, who knows what's he going trough....
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